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43 Cupertino, CA Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:35pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am one of those painfully shy, seemingly outgoing introverts. I try to put myself out amongst the crowds, but when I get there I hardly say a thing and shield myself with a stupid grin on my face. I open up a lot more explaining my answers to the survey questions, so click on "The Two of Us" for all that there.

I'm an artist, focusing lately on type design, exploring sculpture. I don't make a living at that yet. I also draw and paint. I can be blindingly brilliant and phenomenally stupid within minutes of each other. I like to figure out how things work. I've taken apart and put back together many things. I enjoy a day at the beach, seeing movies, and enjoying a quiet evening of indoor activities, or a rather noisy evening of indoor activities.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Changing strategies. Exploring new directions. Finding my way as well as I can. Sleeping more than I'd like at times I shouldn't be sleeping.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm not entirely sure, but it definitely isn't filling out detailed personal profiles. This is all still very much a work in progress.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: the Hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy, Ringworld
movies: Tampopo, Star Wars, Brazil, The Fifth Element,
TV shows: Twin Peaks, Big Bang Theory, Adventure Time, Babylon 5, Glee, Gotham, Game of Thrones (a lot of "G" shows lately), Steven Universe
music: progressive rock and allied sounds, old standards, new and different stuff, movie music, and Kyary Pamyu Pamyu
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
any excuse to drive to Santa Cruz, and where to park once I get there since the last free lot downtown is no longer free.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pondering the similarities of Roundabout and Love Machine, or some such nonsense.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you look like Giada de Laurentiis, have a voice like Terry Gross, and would gleefully exclaim that the Eye of Sauron looks like a cooter. (None of those are a requirement, but those with any one or more of those traits are highly encouraged).

Or, if you're numerically inclined, if you see I score above 80% match or friend and below 20% enemy, then I figure we have a pretty good chance of working out. It's just a guideline, of course. No need to take it seriously.

Or, maybe you want to drink cheap wine and play Guitar Hero. Or other video games. It's hard to play co-op mode by myself.