Rather than a Self Summary, here is what I believe makes a good connection. What I am looking for: Romance, Passion in a relationship as well as in life.

I believe there are
three "essential"
compatibility traits, they are:

1. Mental
2. Physical
3. Emotional

we all want to communicate on some level. The first thing we see is appearance. So first is usually physical.

2nd: do they intrigue us mentally? Are they mentally stimulating? Do we click mentally?

3rd is our heart... Some hearts are guarded, some are warn on a sleeve. Our heart is valued and protected no matter who we are, or what our agenda is.

I prefer someone who is active, enjoys various activities and has some culture. I prefer (but not limited to) 32-46 years.

Lets start out with conversation, develop a connection and go from there. Qualities I'm looking for are someone who's out going, as well enjoys relaxing moments, romantic, thoughtful, affectionate, strong, educated, enjoys life, & certainly knows how to treat a lady. As well enjoys affection.

What kind of a relationship you may ask?? Eventually to find a connection that perhaps will develop into something meaningful. Note: I do not do casual, quick fix or intimate encounters. If you are, let's not waist each others time.

Ps. I am from Chicago & wouldn't mind learning country dancing. Any chance there's a cowboy around? : )

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Enjoying it.

Shorter list if I put what I'm NOT good at = ) I like scuba diving,snow skiing and water skiing, Paint ball and Laser Tag, Road Cycling and Mountain Biking, all sorts of enjoyable exciting things. To include concerts, fine dining & delicious red wines, going to Hockey Games, Free Style Motor-cross and other exciting sporting events.

Hobbies and other things I enjoy and am very very good at: Cooking Candle making Fixing Computers

Eyes, Chest, and my friendly nature.

Comedy, Sci-Fi, Adventure. Food: Indian, Middle Eastern, Persian, Iranian, Japanese, Chinese, Some Italian, Steak, Fish...

Music: Ranges from Soft-hard rock to metal, ska, soft jazz, Dance... various artists include: Aerosmith, Rush, Linkoln Park, Mighty Mighty Bosstones, Diana Krall, Josh Groban, Various Christian Artist, Papa Roach, Buckcherry, Avenged Sevenfold, Disturbed, Nickelback, Green Day, Police, Eminem, The list goes on and on.

Oxygen, H2O, Sun, Sleep, Love, & Money.

Everything. I'm a sponge to life & all it's mysteries and wonders.

Hoping my weekend will revive me for the next week of work.

Nothing.

You like sporty girls, who have a lil extra padding, who is a person who is a giver, who wants a giver. If You're calm, sensitive, yet still a strong man, romantic, intelligent, fun, able to listen and hold a conversation, outgoing, in good condition, attractive, between 32 & 46. Then send me a message.