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23 M Pickens, SC

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Today – 6:41pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
Yep im a guy who does things and likes some stuff. Im interesting and deep and all that jazz. I say wierd things, and behave strangely in social settings. I never take off my hat, NEVER! Now for a bunch of random facts about my life.

PS. for those who might ask, I do have a full head of hair. I just realy like my hat.
What I’m doing with my life
working at BMW, Trying to finish my tiny house, wrighting music, planning my next trip out west, sitting on my porch enjoying a ciggarette and admiring the mountains, loving the simple life, you know, just livin the american dream and all that jazz.
I’m really good at
music/ building decks/ thinking endlessly about every aspect of life/ realizing that i think to much/ then continuing to overthink anyway/ learning useless skills like playing the spoons, and breathing fire/ losing touch with "reality"/doing funny voices for your entertainment/ forgetting to go back to my regular voice afterward. generaly im just pretty damn good at being Ben.
The first things people usually notice about me
I realy couldnt say. Maby my beard or something along those lines.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
As far as books go i generally like educational litterature. if i take the time to read something, i want to walk away with useful knowledge. the books on my bedside table tonight, sigmund freud's "Creativity and the unconscious" outdated building code book, english to russian dictionary, music theory hand book, and for fun a little Bukowski.

I love movies that make you think. Anything that you have to watch multiple times to understand. also movies with extemely charismatic leads and Gangster movies. i love gangster movies!some favorites, clockwork orange, Devils advocate, The hannibal lecter series, hearts in atlantis, (anything with anthony hopkins) lost Boys, Boondock Saints, Following, Untouchables, What dreams may come, Dead man, the professional, Goodfellas, road to perdition, the Departed, Donnie Brasco, etc.

t.v. is not realy my bag. though i sometimes watch Leverage and think yeah, i could totaly get away with that.

Music is a big important chunk of my existence. i listen to anything as long as their is musical quality. Jazz, Classical, Folk, Rockabilly, gypsy punk, country (real country, not pop country ex: chris smither, Ramblin Jack Elliot) I really love melancholy music. its just got more feeling to it. Some favorite artists, Tom Waits(my hero), Reverend Horton Heat, Din of Thieves, Dire Straits, the National, Larry and his Flask, Motorhead, Deer Tick, Horse the Band, Soundgarden, Nine Horses, Yes, Rancid, The Damned, Dropkick Murphys, the Dubliners(anything Irish), Barry White(you better believe it), Frank Sinatra, Frank Zappa, Gogol Bordello, Man Man, Meat Loaf, The National, Temple of the Dog, Scott H. Biram, Possessed by Paul James, warren Zevon(has a song for any mood you might be in) just to name a few.

and now food, i eat pretty much anything. but i Love Greek food. its magnificent. aswell as Cajun food. Creole, Gumbo, the works. i believe the Potato should have its own food group. i dont realy eat anything that might be good for me though
The six things I could never do without
a slightly skew outlook on life
a fine hat
my amigo's
the solidarity of my shack tucked away in the hills
sleazy motels to wright my music in
I spend a lot of time thinking about
way to much stuff. iv created my own theories about everything by now.
On a typical Friday night I am
sitting in waffle house with a cup of coffee talking about this and that with my buds(bitching about the juke box not having any Tom Waits songs). or if im lucky its one of those wild nights where I find myself wandering aimlessly through some mysterious new realm of possibility
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
let me sum this up the best way i know how. close your eyes. picture this if you will.
here we go.
Im the one man band in a caravan of sideshow freaks looking for the nearest speakeasy so i can curl up with a drink and fall asleep on the bar with an out of tune guitar and dream of places far away from where i was yesterday only to wake up with an empty cup and an unpaid tab waded up in hand amounting to last years gross income. Where the hell did that come from? Oh yeah, i tried to be a big shot when i havent got a pot to piss in. Oh shit im missin my ride again gotta run. But please remember all the fun we had dancin beneath the sun and the moon. Ill be back around soon. but in the mean time play a tune on the juke box any time you got a dime to spare and memmories to share about that time you saw
Bigtop Bennys Barfly Extravaganza

Thank you, and Goodnight.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you have an aversion to excessive cell phone use
if you wanna play some music with me.
if you love jazz or rockabilly
if you want to see the world
if you want to smoke ciggarettes, drink, and listen to good music all night in a cabin overlooking the mountains
if you know who warren zevon is.
if you love that hazey lost sensation you get after a weekend drinking binge
if your not to caught up in your own little world to recognize the incredible vastness of who and what you realy are