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23 Pickens, SC Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 10
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Graduated from high school
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
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Well its like this. I'm just your standard issue middle class Irishman who loves music, long drives, and waffle house conversations about the difference between I and self. ya dig? im kind of a bastard most of the time, but a lovable bastard. I love working on my odd projects and building random semi useful shit. I work hard and when I'm done I have fun. so let me just get to the crux of the biscuit (moral of the story, bottom line, main idea) I want to find something solid, real, and serious. Im tired of the Disney movie romances and the Hollywood ideas about love. I just want to find someone who knows what they want out of life. someone with a realistic perception of the world we live in, who's personality meshes well with my own. Im lookin for a passenger to ride shot gun on the road trip of life haha that being said, im not one to rush so don't get the rong idea. this is just where im at in life. anyway, read on reader
What I’m doing with my life
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working at BMW, Starting up a paving business on the side, Trying to finish my tiny house, selling my tiny house, purchasing a slightly bigger house, building a metal shop behind said house, wrighting music, planning my next trip out west, sitting on my porch enjoying a ciggarette and admiring the mountains, loving the simple life, you know, just livin the american dream and all that jazz.
I’m really good at
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music/ building decks/Mind fucking myself into a coma/ learning useless skills like playing the spoons, and breathing fire/ losing touch with "reality"/doing funny voices for your entertainment/ forgetting to go back to my regular voice afterward. generaly im just pretty damn good at being Ben.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my bangin ass!....but Not realy :(
I really don't know to be honest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot of "How To" books. books on business, various skills, language, instruction manuals, things of that nature. love free verse. Not much of a novel kind of guy. I do however like a little Bukowski. Its like literary Jazz.

Mind fucks and Gangster flicks. Trees lounge, Goodfellas, Leon the professional, Things to do in Denver when your dead, Clockwork Orange, Natural born killers, reservoir dogs, Devils Advocate, all that good stuff.

t.v. is not realy my bag.

music is a pretty big deal. Jazz, Classical, Folk, Rockabilly, gypsy punk, country (real country, not pop country ex: chris smither, Ramblin Jack Elliot) I really love anything melancholy. Some favorite artists, Tom Waits(my hero), Charles Mingus, John Coltrane, Horace Silver, Charlie Parker, Benny Goodman, Reverend Horton Heat, Din of Thieves, Dire Straits, the National, Larry and his Flask, Motorhead, Deer Tick, Horse the Band, Soundgarden, Nine Horses, Yes, Rancid, The Damned, Dropkick Murphys, the Dubliners(anything Irish), Barry White(you better believe it), Frank Sinatra, Frank Zappa, Gogol Bordello, Man Man, Meat Loaf, The National, Temple of the Dog, Scott H. Biram, Possessed by Paul James, warren Zevon(my other hero) just to name a few.

and now food, i eat pretty much anything. but i Love Greek and Cajun food. I believe the Potato should have its own food group. I dont realy eat anything that might be good for me though
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a slightly skew outlook on life
a fine hat
my amigo's
my wheels
shit to get into
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
You just wouldn't even believe. Basically Some really deep shit fallowed swiftly by some really stupid shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Bar, waffle house, woods, truck, blindfolded, tied to the railroad tracks, bleeding out, 38 special, swamp thing, assassination of Thomas Edison, and history repeats itself. TGIF!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm afraid of whales. no joke. those fuckers don't mess around. Just ask my friend Captain Ahab.
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you make everything Groovy.