If you are not afraid of someone else's kids.
I have five. You'd need to accept that and that I'm definitely not
having more. (Snip snip!)
I don't have room in my life for any more royalty than my two
princesses and their three prince brothers.
Now, they DO live with their mother but I am heavily active in
their lives. And honestly I don't really WANT to be around someone
else's kids because it just makes me really REALLY miss mine. BUT
I'd be willing to give it a try. I don't want "another mom" for my
kids and I won't be "another dad" for yours. Sorry, that's just how
I expect these feelings to change as they get older but as long as
my kids are young, other people's young kids will just really make
me sad and wish I was with my own. Makes me kinda feel like I'm
betraying my kids. You know?
You have to be young at heart. I don't have time for overly serious
people. There's a time and a place for seriousness, but don't let
it control your life I say.
You like geeks or nerds or have a obsession that the rest of the
world thinks is weird. I like weird.
You don't have a small dog that you pretend is your kid. It's not a
kid. It's not even a real dog. You want a dog, get a real dog. One
of those at least 3' tall ones.
You want something that small get a cat.
It's been my experience (8 different women this theory was tested
with) that women with small dogs equals emotionally or physically
abused by a recent (within 5 years) ex relationship and now
distrustful of men or looking for revenge on the next guy.
Geeks, nerds, gamers, lovers of knowledge and cryptozoology,
paranormal, conspiracy, open minded intellectual non sheep.
Stuffy, close minded ,uptight, arrogant and stubborn people who
mindlessly follow the pack