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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 56–76
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 5:52am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes cats
My self-summary
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07/22/15 I have been asked why I have offered so much about me in my profile. I did this so you can learn a lot about me long before we might ever meet and I will have not hidden anything about myself for you to find later. I have safe and sane rules for relationships and naturally recognize the same in others.
07/13/15 I was recently asked about my children. Yes, I was a parent to 3 children, and the last one flew into the world in 2000, fifteen years ago. I was also a sailor once for 14 years, and that ended 34 years ago. Today I do not define myself with either past experience.
I have found that my past experiences with wives, children, and jobs is not an accurate predictor of who I have become at this age. I, likewise do not assume that a woman is warm, exciting, and friendly based on words in a profile, or because they have photos with grandkids and pets. Sometimes, profiles convey information about the writer in what they do not say. I like this dating site because it offers questions we can answer about a wide variety of topics. Reading the questions others answer will often show what they will avoid in any future discussions with them, and if their profile text is consistent with their answers. Sometimes it is even noticeable if they have used intellectual integrity to choose their beliefs about the world.
07/01/15 A sane rule a teacher offered me was my energy would flow out of me to others and be instantly replenished from the universe unless I had the channel blocked within me. Thus, others don't steal my energy, I only deprive myself of the access to energy that life offers, then blame others for making me tired.

04/26/15 In this life I have found myself to be on a spiritual journey and not so much a religious one. After many years of study in the inerrant holy books, I discovered that I had to abandon the idea that a God who has shown such a long history of psychopathic behavior toward his creations could also be the God of love. This was necessary so that I could live my life sanely and with usefulness to others. And for me, within each version of myself, I imagine a new vision of me that I can work to become. In this life, I seem to be focused on eighth house issues of birth, sex, death, resurrection via reincarnation and ascension. I have found my immortality hidden within my breath and eternity hidden within the current moment, that life and death are but gateways to the other.

04/21/15 I'm thinking that the search for a soul mate is an attempt by me to believe my soul at an earlier time was willing to do the work to have such a deep connection. That there was a time when my soul was not lazy and didn't expect to get something without working for it. My unwillingness to do the work today for this connection more likely is just a continuation of my soul's ancient laziness.

3/12/15 Ladies...I came into this world a "real man", I was just a smaller one. And I have given up hope that the many bubbly, outgoing ladies found here will be able to overcome their misogynistic(dislike of women embedded within all three religions of Abraham, and planted by social norms so it cannot be seen by even women) conditioning which keeps them from daring to say even a "hello" to a man they find interesting. We all have the exact relationships we desire.

It is 2/20/15. After watching so many of us remain on here for extended times and reading over and over that you ladies are looking for honest, trustworthy, genuine, fun loving real men, I can only assume that none of us guys are out here. It is very likely that if us guys are here, we also haven't often found what we say we seek within the large number of women offering loving kindness, honesty, and openness. Do we have poor picking skills from our past-should we pick again with the old failing selection criteria? Sane thinking would suggest we abandon the rules parents, clergies, and friends approve of us for using. Those in my age group have lived the greatest portion of our lives using old rules and they produce the same shoddy outcomes that "capture and keep" games always give us. I do not look forward to days filled with pre-chewed food, watching TV from distant recliners, and quoting scriptures from books that tell me I need to never fully engage in this life so I can have a later life where my ego feels it is safe in a kindergarden heaven. Each of our lives begin with and end with a year number, separated by a dash. I am going to make the most of my dash. What will you get from a man like get a real man who is wise enough to not want to engage in sex with every woman I have coffee with. I will not create prisons of rules to keep a partner and I will not live in one created by another even if they declare they live by some universal code of behavior and thinking. Moral standards will always be relevant only to the society we live in...they are never universal no matter what we have been told by parents and clergy. I live without causing harm to myself and others. I recognize fantasy within me and others during our first coffees together. I do not have a picture in front of my face of who I want you to believe I am and I have learned to not have a second coffee with ladies that have a picture I am to believe in front of them.

It is 10/27/14. I have begun to see that the close warm loving relationships we are all seeking is more likely a fantasy about something we haven't yet found, at least for the divorced of us. Our long searches imply that we have poor skills in searching or we really seek someone we will not admit to ourselves or others. We all once thought we had found the perfect mate for us with our last ones, and I could not have been talked out of them being the only person I would ever want or need until I died, despite red flags so clearly seen by others. Perhaps if we are honest with ourselves, we might admit that the games we played to "capture and keep" our prior mates didn't work well then and will not likely succeed again. Just maybe we will gain access to heaven by loving many instead of loving only one or being loved by one who was a hostage. I am adding this paragraph as efforts to become the gentle-man my mother hoped for offered in my text has attracted little interest. I am now be willing to interact with you to live out any fantasies you have not found a partner for, with the caveat that no harm will come to us. Maybe this paragraph will elicit more than a "hey there" with its no follow on response.

***Old entry***Feeling loved by another is sweet, but what happens within me when I love is why I search for a partner. This internal condition changes my universe. I desire participation in the changes love creates within you and I offer you participation in the changes I create within me. I take full responsibility for my interior mental and emotional self. If I do not hold you responsible for my interior condition when it is good, you will not have to be blamed should it change.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for exciting business opportunities. Appreciating what the universe has provided me. I play some golf, might skate the Riverwalk. After many years of listening to La Donna e Mobile, I recently found what the words mean in English. I might have found them useful had I known this earlier in life. Vitas on youtube does an incredible rendition of this piece, worth the view for opera lovers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am an excellent cook. I have now completed 1200+ questions. My attempt to be known can fall into the category "really good at", even though I was prompted.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My general sense of ease.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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histories of religions, Emerald Tablets of Thoth
Romantic/science fiction
Jazz, new age, opera...Vitas, possibly the world's greatest counter-counter-counter tenor. I also am impressed with the power and passion in Pink's song Try.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There have been times when I was without whatever I had formerly believed I couldn't live without and survived. Perhaps it is other people in general I cannot live without, as without others in my life I will become unsure that I am really here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
04/08/15 Perhaps the permanence we seek within relationship along with our desire for forever is but an imperfect spiritual longing for the return to the unity of All That Is, from which we never separated ourselves, but only became seemingly real when my unity looked at itself, then considered only for an instant that the view of myself made an object apart from what I had considered. At this moment I projected myself as separate and splashed my projection into a universe where I seemed to be real. The rest of the illusion then becomes a subjective reality, existing only in my mind.

01/27/15 I am left wondering what I should believe within any profile I view on here. A lady on a site wrote she was looking for someone to chat with. I perked right up because I know some words and I can do that. After four e-mails had been exchanged, I had received two words and nine pieces of punctuation. Whatever should us men use to predict what words might mean in a woman's profile?

01/20/15 A friend reminded me today that for most of the men and women here, there is a man or woman somewhere that is glad we are gone, and they did not find the warm, highly energetic, caring person now advertising. I also suspect that they daily light votive candles to show their gratitude that I am gone.

My partner and l will have sane and sound ideas that guide any sexual relationship. We each will be free of other emotional and sexual links. We will want our emotional links to be heightened by our sexual link, instead of using sex to create emotional links. I will want no others in my mind, dreams or fantasies. My highest idea is that our sexual relationship will be the external expression of what we have in our hearts for each other.

Should one partner no longer find their heart's desire in the other they will wander off to continue seeking their heart's desire in another. And while this at first may result in feelings of anger or pain of loss, this action actually safeguards both hearts from further pain.

I have never been fully certain of the love of others, but loving them assures my heart that I am in the midst of love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At supper with a group of friends sharing good conversation. Tonight, 7/20, I am captured listening to LaBoheme, the music featured in the movie Moon Struck with Cage and Cher. A powerful movie that reminded me of the emotional dynamics within my 7 year marriage to a Sicilian and her family. A wonderful movie and a rich life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to star in the movie of my own life instead of spending any time watching previews for the trailers of my fantasies.
You should message me if
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you are up for coffee and conversation, if we click we might shop for dinner...we can cook it together. As a friend says "we might even dance between stirrings".

You are willing to co-star in a joint movie of great lives.