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66 Columbus, GA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 54–76
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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It is 10/27/14. I have begun to see that the close warm loving relationships we are all seeking is more likely a fantasy about something we haven't yet found, at least for the divorced of us. I say this as so many of us have been searching for so long. Our long searches imply that we have poor skills in searching or we really seek someone we will not admit to ourselves or others. We all once thought we had found the perfect mate for us with our last ones, and I could not have been talked out of them being the only person I would ever want or need until I died, despite red flags so clearly seen by others. Perhaps if we are honest with ourselves, we might admit that the games we played to "capture and keep" our prior mates didn't work well then and will not likely succeed again. I am adding this paragraph as efforts to become the gentleman my mother hoped for offered in my text has attracted little interest. I will now be willing to interact with any other fantasies you have not found a partner for, with the caveat that no harm will come to us. Maybe this paragraph will elicit more than a "hey there" with its no follow on response.
***Old entry***Feeling loved by another is sweet, but what happens within me when I love is why I search for a partner. This internal condition changes my universe. I desire participation in the changes love creates within you and I offer you participation in the changes I create within me. I take full responsibility for my interior mental and emotional self. If I do not hold you responsible for my interior condition when it is good, you will not have to be blamed should it change.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for exciting business opportunities. Appreciating what the universe has provided me. I play some golf, might skate the Riverwalk. After many years of listening to La Donna e Mobile, I recently found what the words mean in English. I might have found them useful had I known this earlier in life. Vitas on youtube does an incredible rendition of this piece, worth the view for opera lovers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am an excellent cook. I have now completed 1200+ questions. My attempt to be known can fall into the category "really good at", even though I was prompted.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My general sense of ease.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
histories of religions, Emerald Tablets of Thoth
Romantic/science fiction
Jazz, new age, opera...Vitas, possibly the world's greatest counter-counter-counter tenor. I also am impressed with the power and passion in Pink's song Try.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There have been times when I was without whatever I had formerly believed I couldn't live without and survived. Perhaps it is other people in general I cannot live without, as without others in my life I will become unsure that I am really here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
01/20/15 A friend reminded me today that for most of the men and women here, there is a man or woman somewhere that is glad we are gone, and they did not find the warm, highly energetic, caring person now advertising.

I have pondered what words might mean in profiles. I read texts that include "warm, kind, generous, funny, honest to a fault". If I was to include them in my text, there is no rational reason for others to believe me based on what I might write in my resume here. I would also wonder at another who believed any of these about me without knowing me personally. Reading comments about the poor quality men some have found on here, I will offer that it is likely that few men have found the openness, honesty, loving, fun, and unwillingness to play games that mislead that is offered here in the resumes of countless ladies. And I have given up hope that the many bubbly, outgoing ladies found here will be able to overcome their misogynistic conditioning which keeps them from daring to say even a "hello" to a man they find interesting. We all have the exact relationships we desire.

My partner and l will have sane and sound ideas that guide any sexual relationship. We each will be free of other emotional and sexual links. We will want our emotional links to be heightened by our sexual link, instead of using sex to create emotional links. I will want no others in my mind, dreams or fantasies. My highest idea is that our sexual relationship will be the external expression of what we have in our hearts for each other.

Should one partner no longer find their heart's desire in the other they will wander off to continue seeking their heart's desire in another. And while this at first may result in feelings of anger or pain of loss, this action actually safeguards both hearts from further pain.

I have never been fully certain of the love of others, but loving them assures my heart that I am in the midst of love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At supper with a group of friends sharing good conversation. Tonight, 7/20, I am captured listening to LaBoheme, the music featured in the movie Moon Struck with Cage and Cher. A powerful movie that reminded me of the emotional dynamics within my 7 year marriage to a Sicilian and her family. A wonderful movie and a rich life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to star in the movie of my own life instead of spending any time watching previews for the trailers of my fantasies.
You should message me if
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you are up for coffee and conversation, if we click we might shop for dinner...we can cook it together. As a friend says "we might even dance between stirrings".

You are willing to co-star in a joint movie of great lives.