Caring wreck seeks same for match made in hell (but fun while it lasts)!
Ok, I'll be honest. At this point, I am not good long term dating material and I am OK with that. I am flawed and more than a bit of a fixer upper. Don't even think of fixing me (or trying). I'm a bit of a wreck, but I am also one of the kindest, most caring people you will ever meet. If you happen to be brainy and odd, I may be one of the people who gets you better than most. If you happen to be flawed yourself, a bit of a mess but rebuilding, or eve in a good place but wanting something a bit different, I would make for an ideal, friend, sounding board, practice date, rebound, fling... anything other than a long term answer. I don't want a one night stand. I don't want anything sleazy. But I don't want anything serious. If that makes me a bad person in your mind so be it.
If I haven't lost you by now...
I am a brainy sort, but I don't fit into either the nerdy or geeky camps, I am somewhere in between. I can be a huge beer snob and music obsessive, but then again I like Shiner and don't keep up with recent music. I am most often quiet, shy and introspective, but every once in awhile... Yeah I think you see where I am going with this. Basically I was the brainy, nerdy kid who was into punk instead of sci fi. You know, the guy who hung out with the smart stoners and alternative kids. I just never really grew out of it. (well I outgrew the stoner part lol..)
I get that only a small subset of people will be interested in me, and I am cool with that. I am in a way interested in everyone, but would only want to be around those who can appreciate me as I am.
Most important. I am Dad to a 3 year old. Nothing comes close to mattering as much as him. I would assume anyone worth knowing would get that.