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40 F Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 2
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish

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What I’m doing with my life
nourishing my artistic/intellectual/spiritual/romantic* journey...
I’m really good at
inventing and presenting seemingly dysfunctional things, experiences and ideas, studying, teaching, organizing, listening, debating, negotiating, sharing, cuddling, dancing, swimming, running, bicycling, cooking, gardening, composting, fermenting raw veggies, laughing, crying, and caring for others. **
The first things people usually notice about me
my accent, my hair, ... and more...
The six things I could never do without
at the moment:

the intangible: friendship, family, the magic, humor, music

the stuff: a bag; bicycle; space to make, play and think; sketchbook & marker; computer/video/photo/sound equipment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
mmm.... my project the "invisible punishing machine"... and other ideas about... prison abolition. social control mechanisms. institutional racism and slavery. gender politics. feminism, cyborgs, sci-fi and technology. space, place and the body. borders. alternative/sustainable living. environmental justice. sex, polyamory, friendships, family, and economics. thinking. brain functions. art. performance. how to do-it-myself or how-to-seek-for-help in what I am doing. discovering where I am moving to... strolling around to learn about the place I am living or visiting... what I am going to eat next and ah yes... when I would I have time to go swim and camp ...

also about this new project: [ ]
On a typical Friday night I am
...unpredictably open to play, work or rest.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
* dating/befriending/coupling with the intend to practice respectful polyamory and other adventures... but (yep....I don't have the guts for intimate email blind dates, so if I respond lets keep it short and meet!)

** but sometimes I may fail to do them well...
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 36–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
if if you want to:

- be friends... (no worries)
- be romantic etc... (I prefer THIN TO AVERAGE
... and I am looking to meet ladies/gay/bi/androgynous/cross dressers/trans-masculine/cis-males
who are awesome/inventive/open-minded/radical-feminist at heart/communicative/affectionate/hot/nerdy/unafraid to be sensual/honest/philosophical/intellectual/funny/wicked/idealist

and in combination you want to:

- simple feel how extraordinary is to be meeting someone in person
- feel the energy and awkwardness of our company
- tell me that you are in an sweet open relationship
- meet someone more different/similar/complicated/complex/simple than you...
- tell me that you are an eccentric creature... or you have calmed down because...
- be out and about doing something real... to shut down our computers... ((& for real... as much as it is my best friend, I get sick of this machine... don't you?))
- drink a hot chocolate/tea/coffee and talk about nerdy, philosophical, sensual, difficult and/or fun stuff (it is ok over beer/wine/...etc... but only to get tipsy and playful...)
- stroll around the city.... I love learning how places forms/deforms/transforms (right now i doing some studies.. I can tell you more later)... /
- tell me that you love to listen and or/dance live punk/hardcore/doom-metal/classical/blues/indie/blue-grass/rock/hip-hop/rap/experimental/electronic/funk/tango...etc and perhaps until the day you die...
- invite me to a radical event. lecture. show. museum. historical site. or to enjoy the forest...
- break rules
- share your projects with me
- need a hand in doing something...
- trade / barter
- tell me that you are too busy or far away but you are dying to met me in person...
- tell me that even if all fails or falls apart, you are brave to stand up for your believes, desires, walk-the-talk por 'mar y tierra'... awesome...

... ah...this list can be endless... so simple surprise me... ;-)