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28 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 2
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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human mess. "they" / "them" pronouns.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i spend most of my time daydreaming, writing, watching movies, and making art.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
growing a beard quickly, making lists, missing stops on the subway train because i fell asleep, passenger seat navigation, karaoke, cooking, laughing it off, dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i don't really know how to sit still.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: miracle of the rose, the celluloid closet, equus, beautiful losers, as i lay dying, unlimited intimacy, the complete plays of sarah kane, in watermelon sugar, a season in hell, tender buttons

movies: mademoiselle, the doom generation, morvern callar, a zed and two noughts, stroszek, jesus christ supertsar, written on the wind, johnny guitar, l'atalante, tropical malady, lola montes, o fantasma, desperate living, return to oz, my own private idaho

music: nina simone, xiu xiu, arthur russell, low, cocteau twins, the smiths, bjork, galaxie 500, red house painters, smog, big star, tom waits, fugazi, hop along, new order, yo la tengo, slowdive, cap'n jazz

tee-vee: twin peaks, home movies, battlestar galactica, parks and recreation, adventure time

food: nothing beats mexican breakfast.

*these are my interests and i am quite passionate about them, but i am also interested in what you're passionate about and i try to be open-minded.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
medication, swimming, dreams, word games, slow music, ginger ale
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
words and dictionaries, non-monogamy, my why chromosome, haircuts, stanzas of poems, art terrorism, autobiography, surrealism, alphabetical organization, horses, electricity, crosswords, queer politics, cinematic identification, and sex
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working. boooooo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i have been hospitalized several times in my life for things i do not remember happening or doing.
You should message me if
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you want to watch movies or make out.

i am in a happy, long-term non-monogamous situation with multiple partners, so i'm not looking for much beyond friendship and a little fun at this point.