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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:35pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, hello. Won't you have a seat?

I have many qualities that you may discover if you were to chat with me or meet me. Of them I am glad to report; I have good pheromones, and, in person, people of all ages treat me as though I'm hot. Maybe its because I look more 3D in person? On the sexy side, I also don't mind saying, I'm endowed and I'm singular in kinky arrangements.

Still, despite all of that, it doesn't keep me from being shy and failing at OKC. I have enough wit but I can not seem to excel at the "flirting with the wall" feel of this medium. I benefit from a flesh and blood human presence in finding my muse.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Full speed ahead
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I rarely document my talents. Seems like something I should do more of.

Ask me to write you letters. Try asking me to dance at a house party sometime. Get me into a philosophical discussion. Ask me to experience and talk about food or art with you. Try something neither of us have ever thought of doing before.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
At first the birds fly out from the trees. Then my silhouette emerges from the brush. It is unclear whether I have been fatally wounded or not. Then as I step forward into the light my chiseled specifics are apparent from under my torn bloodied tank top. I'm holding a puppy I saved from the rogue Ninja clan. Then we embrace and kiss for the first time. For some reason this epic battle that would ordinarily leave us both traumatized instead bonds us in passionate love.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Wallace, Lethem, Alexie, Ballard, McCarthy, Foucault, Jameson, July, Speigelman, Satrapi and various technical tomes. Whedon, Jonze, Kaufman, Coens, Gondry, Wenders, Anderson, Soderbergh,, internet gifs, Daft Punk, Com Truise, Pelican, Octopus Project, Earthless, Godspeed, Dj Qbert, Red Sparowes, Iggy Pop, Crystal Castles, Beasties(RIP), Mastodon, Copy, Dr Octagon, Black Flag, Fever Ray, Ultravox, DJ Krush, Buckethead, Massive Attack, Orange Goblin, Trans Am, Pixies, Flipper, Thievery Corporation, Cut Copy, Pink Floyd, Jel and stuff.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Daisy Duke
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
and so could you
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are like many people my age take this into consideration: You should contact me if you aren't in the exact place in your life that I am or if you are but either way you can spare the time for adventure. You should at least sometimes see your regrets as motivational and your losses should at least sometimes teach you to appreciate what you still have.

I think love is when you grow happier with someone. But if you aren't going to grow anymore because you are all "been there done that" how are you going to expect love by that definition? Aging isn't nearly as linear as people say it is. It's only the march to the grave that is linear and you aren't dead yet.

If you are younger but can relate, then possibly you just got out of an LTR? This 40-something funk is exactly like that but seemingly harder to shake for many people.