I have many qualities that you may discover if you were to chat with me or meet me. Of them I am glad to report; I have pheromones and, in person, people of all ages kindly treat me as though I'm attractive which is flattering. Maybe its because I look more 3D in person? I also enjoy listening to body language and vocal nuances.
I'm not really taking OKC that seriously despite the reality that I am ready for seriousness. I mean c'mon, the OKC experience is cracked out with crazy men! Not that I'm 100% sane. I read Madness and Civilization and I was transformed. But even with all the kooks banned, the concept of perpetually shopping is the exact OPPOSITE of how to connect.
Plus screw rational thought. Who doesn't like to start with a little fun and passion anyway?
In that vein of the not-so-serious, I don't mind admitting that when the Mr. Hyde to my Dr. Jekyll comes out, I'm singular and capable of some fun kinks. I'm also safe and get tested on the reg and I'm Goofy, Giving, and Game. That's what GGG stands for, right?
Also I have privilege up the wazoo. I've had a million second chances in life. I grew up in Berkeley in the 80's so I got an early start hearing other voices call me out or call me in. At this point, I try to appreciate the privileges everyone should have and disregard the one's no one should have. I worry about how we police.