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unfoundered

43 M New London, CT

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:59am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I've been a bit of a rolling stone for the past oh, twenty years or so. I spent the first half of the '90s hitchhiking and riding freight trains around the country and doing manual labor. Then I spent eight years in Seattle bike messengeing and doing office work. Moved to the Big City after that and did more bike messengeing. Back to Seattle then Moloka'i then then Seattle then the Hudson Valley then Texas then the Hudson Valley then the City then my little Upstate hometown then the City. In 2006 in the City I learned that I could make a living as a Tall Ship Sailor. I wish I had discovered this sooner, alas. Now I'm a ship's engineer on a schooner based in Mystic CT. I love being a ship's engineer but I'm at that point in my life where I'd like to start gathering some moss. A big ol' garden of moss to tend with a sweet and kind lady.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a ship's engineer. Like Scotty or Geordi from Star Trek. But more often than:
- "We need more power Mister Scott!"
- "I'm giving her all she's got Captain!"
it's like, "Um, hey Chief, there's this ... smell ... coming from the bilges in the aft cabins, um, could you look into that?"

The captain calls me Chief even though I'm the only engineer.

In the interest of gathering moss I'd like to start working on ferries in the City or Long Island or Connecticut so I can come home to that sweet and kind lady every night. Or maybe Seattle. Or Hawaii.

-- earlier --
I'm on a schooner in Fairhaven Mass. waiting to get hauled out. Then we're supposed to be sailing around southern New England and NYC for the summer.

-- earlier --
I'm a tall ship sailor falling back to bike messenger for the winter.
I’m really good at
Sailing, fixing bikes, technology, washing dishes.
The first things people usually notice about me
My glasses? I no longer have bright yellow hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm reading Moby Dick and The Wordy Shipmates. That's funny. Moby dick was on the shelves of the boat I'm working on and The Wordy Shipmates was on sale at the Seaport Museum. I really like Sarah Vowell.

-- earlier --
I love thrift store book shopping. Right now I'm reading Welcome to the Monkey House, and a book of poems by Emily Bronte. Wuthering Heights, Lord of the Flies, Frankenstein, Brave New World are some of my favorite books. I also like popular science books. And Lord of the Rings.

Kurisawa's Dreams was pretty great. I'm a bit of movie amnesiac. I saw Shutter Island recently. I liked it. War Games was great.

My favorite bands ever are Joy Division and the Cure but I'm not all mopey-dopey. I like rootsy America-type country like Jeff Tweedy, Ryan Adams, the Be Good Tanyas. Greg Brown, Tom Waits. Kimya Dawson. Galaxie 500. I love some jazz but don't know enough about it to tell you which kind.

Most food is good, especially sushi, pho, and phad thai.
On a typical Friday night I am
wishing I had the night off, or if I have the night off, sleeping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I probably won't message you - I'm too scared.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you think I seem nice