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  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Today – 10:27am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Dropped out of masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Has dogs
My self-summary
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I'm only skinny on the outside. My heart.... is obese.

Passion is the word. What are you passionate about? What in your life, moves you...

I'm fascinated by knowledge and the things I don't know. Which things? All of them.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
oh so many things.

graduate student
poet and writer
book publisher
office worker
world traveler
brazilian jiu jitsu practitioner
being awesome
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
baking delicious desserts.
using film
self depreciating humor.
being attentive
giving gifts
treating people I care for well
eating stone fruit
growing scraggly beards

looking up all types of ridiculous shit on wikipedia. Then looking up the all the things associated with said ridiculous shit. following the tree down to it's very end. (it never ends)

I'm really bad at:
talking to people in public (usually)
picking appropriate women to date
finishing fruit that I buy if it isn't stone fruit
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my great ass
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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All cuisines are open. Though I enjoy spicy.

There is probably no genre of music I would eliminate off hand. Old school hip hop, wu tang and soul are staples of my auditory diet. Last few days have included Blackalicious, Saul Williams, Ursula Rucker, Nick Cave, Ghostface, Talib Kweli, Coltrane and some other shit that Spotify told me was awesome but obviously wasn't since I don't remember

I watch Dexter, Sons of Anarchy, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones Too many cooking shows, MMA.

authors = neruda, octavio paz, bob kaufman, sexton
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a roof over my head

these are all my necessities.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Jiu Jitsu
writing poetries. editing poetries. bringing about world peace through poetries.
grad school

where will I build my tiny house since I live in an apartment.
publishing your writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
All my Fridays are typical

Doing my books.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I'm having sex, I really DO scream out "awww.... skeet skeet skeet skeet."

I'm pretty random in general. and crass.
You should message me if
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I'll answer. Unless you send me a one line message. Then I won't answer on GP.

I might message you if you visit my profile.

I often fall for the wrong women. So if you are the wrong woman, please message me. Thanks.

If the only time you dance, is when you are doing so ironically. That is also good.

I'm looking for a partner in crime. real crime. Like, I feel like robbing drug dealers would net me a cool million minimum. Do you like adventure? Do you have a rocket launcher and want to take on the Pablo Escobars of the world? Message me.