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uniqueBeing

25 / F / bisexual / Single

Esbo, Finland

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.69m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Swedish (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am passionate, open, and charming.

My Self-Summary

I am an open-minded and curious explorer, who likes to get to know many people from different cultures, situations and with different kinds of opinions. Life is for experiencing and learning. I consider myself an alien and a predator. If you do not understand what I mean with this, or do not like that characteristic, I suggest you move along, since I'm not your type.

Being child-faced and -minded, I tend to believe in the goodness of people -often being disappointed.

I love animals. Animals are the constant scource of inspiration and affection. Too bad I'm allergic to them which prevents me from working with them. ( I do love to rebel against "fate", so I bought myself a cat five years ago. Everything has been going fine for now. She is just the cutest little thing!)

I also love people. People are my constant scource of trouble, which keeps me learning, and my life interesting. I tend to have "hermit" seasons in my life -they let me focus solely on creativity, or on my other lazy-ass hobbies, like computer games and reading.:D But at other times I spend a lot of time with my friends having conversations that give light into my life. A good, honest and sharing discussion can truly purify one's heart and mind.

Hmm.. what else... I think I'm a bit of a geek. I spend most of my time sitting at the computer, love anime and manga, movies, stories, books, art, music, computer/console games, roleplaying (interpret that however you like ;)) and kinds of asian things in general. I also have had an obsession over a japanese singer called Gackt and everything visual kei and j-rock related (dir en grey, anyone?;)) for five years now... I'm starting to get worried! :P
But luckily, my geekiness can be forgiven, because I have charm (natural 20 ;)).

What I’m doing with my life

I strive to be as loyal to my conscience as possible, so I do good things to others, as well as things that I've always wanted to, instead of just dreaming about them.
Last autumn I began my studies in the University of Helsinki with East Asian studies as my major, and have loved every second of it!

I’m really good at

Making people laugh, and helping them see things from other viewpoints (which is usually the humorous side of even the most negative things in life...:)) I also have a great intuition, having so the ability to see what other people can't. ( no, I am not schizophrenic or anything...! *laughs *) Analyzing is also one of my strong points, but it often leads me to over-analyze everything and afterwards I am very confused. *blink*

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile. It is always real and warm, because I only smile when I really want to. And my way of explaining things a bit theatrically... ( I have a bad habit of dramatising things to give them a little extra spice. =D) Also my eyes, which are almost black.- Really weird in a country with blonde and blue-eyed people.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a)Anne Rice's vampire chronicles, fantasy books, philosophy books, Neale Donald Walsch's Conversations with God, Neil Gaiman's and Terry Prachett's works, etc.

b)I like every movie that wakes up some emotions/thoughts in me, the best ones I never forget. There are so many that I can't list them in here. The last great one I saw was "finding neverland". I cried my eyes off! A great movie for everyone even with just a little piece of a child's heart. I also recommend studio ghibli's production. These are just to mention a few movies...

c)Even harder to list than movies... I like many kinds of music. And also, my musical taste changes somewhat periodically, so it really differs. last.fm/user/senmei -that profile can probably give you a much better image of my tastes than I could do in here.

d)food... Almost everything that my mom makes, because I get to eat them so rarely.:P

The six things I could never do without

My friends and family (which includes all that I consider as my pets, and also some of my friends that have the honourable title to be called my brothers and sisters, for example gonemental, my dear big brother.), shortly: people that I care about, dreams, imagination, all my senses, humour and all the beautiful things in life
OH, and my computer, the family member I spend most of my time with.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I stress about all the things in life, so I ponder about almost everything, during days and nights. That's why I would probably be a catastrophe in traffic if I had the driving licence...

On a typical Friday night I am

With my friends, doing whatever feels good at the moment, or nowadays usually alone in my home, trying to create things, using my computer, dreaming, reading, thinking or studying. Or possibly making some other use of my time, like going to the gym or something. I always seem to lose my time, not that I'm busy, I just always have something to do, and before I even notice, a week has passed and I'm still as confused as ever...:P

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

When it comes to houseworks, I am the laziest one ever! (No, really!):S

You should message me if

-You are open-minded (for example, homophobia is not open-mindedness.)

-You actually have something to say.

-You are prepared to wait for the reply for a very long time. I am very lazy to answer my mails nowadays. I may answer them, if the right mood hits me, but I also may not..:) (Nothing personal.)

-Also, I am not here to IM, so forget even trying that.