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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 9:21pm
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Musician, artist, and writer with a tech job and a bunch of tattoos.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making music of multiple flavors. Not using my education in journalism. Working my ass off at my job and loving the company I work for. Learning to surf. Seeing what the bay has to offer since I have just moved here. Settling into my neighborhood. Trying to learn Mandarin. Trying to be a better musician/person/life form.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Guitar, backrubs, making curry, retaining useless morsels of esoteric knowledge while forgetting the name of someone I met 15 minutes ago, talking, listening. being quiet during movies, pentatonic scales.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tall, no hair, talk too much, bunch of tattoos, that I don't look my age? No idea. Probably depends on the situation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Bukowski, Clive Barker, David Sedaris, the Harry Potter stuff, Steven King, Ayn Rand, cheesy fantasy shit, anything to do with music, eastern philosophy, or bizarre historical facts.

Music: There are only 2 types of music: good and bad. Every other distinction is a fashion statement. If pressed..hmm.. Jeff Buckley, Steve Vai, Ryan Adams, Porcupine Tree, Mastodon, Damien Rice, Ani Difranco, Hendrix, Cream, Beatles, Social Distortion, Misfits, Slayer, Raul Midon, John Mayer (shush, he's a good guitar player), Charlie Hunter, Flecktones, Phish, Zappa, Devin Townsend, I have a metric ton of stuff in my itunes playlist, so I'll just stop now.

Movies: Bad horror, good horror, particularly bad 70's and 80's horror. In Bruges, 7 pounds, pretty much everything Guy Ritchie ever did, obscure indie films. I have a goal to get through the entire criterion collection before I die. That's taking some time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Black strat
Orange Amp
Mr. Bartholomew J. Fuzzypants. He's a new addition, but I love that furry little pain in my ass.
Passion (and not just in the "lets get naughty" way)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next step, the nature of conciousness, whether I should cook or just walk around the corner to get cheap Chinese food. Whether my music is good, or I just think it is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing a show, at home reading, working on music, or watching some of those bad movies. There's really no "typical" night.
You should message me if
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Anything here sounds vaguely interesting. You play music. You can say something to me that makes me think.