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untetheredasyet

41 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:19am
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I value creativity and cleverness, and I often have an allergy to official spectacles (like sports, political parties, television programming, etc.).
What I’m doing with my life
I make weird films, write for a magazine, act in a play and in films, and teach in a university. Sometimes I get interviewed for books and podcasts, and sometimes I'm on the other side of the mic. I also collect art and Art Deco. My apartment is full of odd stuff I've found in NYC over the years and I'll have it photographed once I finish the kitchen.

While I enjoy traveling, it's not something I do as often as I'd like. Perhaps you will help me with this.
The first things people usually notice about me
is that I age at a slower rate than other inhabitants of this planet and I have a big nose. Oh, and the glasses. And I'm almost tall and sort of skinny, but not exactly either.

This is a hard question to answer because I'm not another person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - I generally read non-fiction and often in clumps surrounding particular writing and film projects. This is not to say that I don't like fiction - I love fiction - but my reading tends to be more programmatic than recreational.

Films - I watch a lot of film noir, older films, indies, documentaries. Here are some enduring favorites: Night and the City, The Bicycle Thief, The Vanishing, Metropolis, Spies, Talk to Her, Run Lola Run, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Memento............and most anything by Preston Sturges, Deren, Almodovar, Kubrick, Kustarica, Lang, Cronenberg. It just goes on and on....

Music - rock, cabaret noir, noise, post-punk, weird folk, 60s garage and rnb, klezmer, classical, bebop, fucked up dance music, Norton records, or whatever is playing on WFMU. My current musical obsession is Black Merda. I was a DJ for several years and I own a record collection in the thousands.

Food - I eat generally healthy, whole foods (fruit, veg, etc), and as little refined sugar and processed food stuff as possible. I don't eat meat or birds.
The six things I could never do without
1. hope that I will find true love.
2. art to inspire, move, and confuse me.
3. healthy, delicious food.
4. friends who support and provoke me.

Yes, that's right, I've stopped at 4.
Why play by the rules?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
starting a family before I am too old. Otherwise, I dwell on art, life, quotidian crap, etc. How about you? What are YOUR current obsessions?
On a typical Friday night I am
hopefully at a film, a music or theater performance, an art opening, a party, or on a romantic interlude of some sort.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I admit that I am single and I do not care to be.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to meet up and see what's what.