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27 F New Delhi, India

My Details

Last Online
Jul 8
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hindi (Poorly)

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My self-summary
You wouldn't believe me if I told you! ;) And this doesn't mean you message me and ask me to tell you. Tired of that line already.
What I’m doing with my life
Figuring it out, mostly.
I’m really good at
Pushing limits
Talking myself into/out of things
Flaking out :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Even thinking about filling this column up gives me a headache. I'm too changeable to really stick to one genre, I try out different things at different times. Books. I read lots of random stuff, and multiple random stuff at the same time so let me just list what I'm currently reading: Mervyn Peake's Gormenghast books (definitely try it if you're a fan of fantasy and tired of the mainstream), rereading Patrick Rothfuss hoping he'll come out with his next book soon, Madame Bovary, Foucault's Pendulum, and just finished the mind-fucking little Wide Sargasso Sea. (I love depressing female writers.) About to join the bandwagon: The Good Earth and The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. I'm not a literature snob though. I like a quick pulpy read in some moods, just as I can read any day. Oh... Also just finished re-reading the HP books back-to-back for the first time since teenage and man. They were even better this time.

Movies. Not a great movie watcher, to be frank. But I like all the usual suspects (ha, pun.) which includes all the movies in your typical "good movies" list. Recently watched and liked The Skin I Live In, The Lunchbox, Solaris, Turn Me On Goddammit. One movie I can watch any time, like ANY DAMN TIME, is Mona Lisa Smile. I mean, how cool (and rare) is it to find a movie with so FEW male characters with anything to say for themselves not related to the female characters? Yay. I love it. It's like flunking a reverse Bechdel test. Also, don't diss The Titanic. I love that film. Like love it enough that I watched the tenth anniversary show on the night the Titanic sank, a hundred years ago. Boom.

Music. Oh. Oh. Where to start. Classical? Yes. Western, Hindustani, Carnatic. Your typical 60s-70s-80s stuff? Yes. The Beatles, Joan Baez, Simon and Garfunkel, Pink Floyd, Pearl Jam, etc etc. You get the idea. Like female writers, I have a soft corner for female artistes too. Ella Fitzgerald, Julie London, KT Tunstall, Regina Spektor, etc. Metal, hip-hop, rap, etc: not my cup of rum and coke (it's winter, come on!) I am willing to listen to all kinds of music, though.

TV Shows. WARNING: Major Friends fan! I hated HIMYM initially because I thought it was so wanna-be-Friends. Then I watched more and fell in love with its quirkiness. Now back to hating it. What a great show ruined by endless boredom. The Big Bang Theory. But gosh, such a horrifically sexist, racist, homophobic show, so it's sort of my guilty pleasure. And don't try to tell me it's parody. It's not. I LOVE COMMUNITY! I will forever mourn the end of House. GOT of course. The Office. Arrested Development. More, much more.

Major foodie. I'm really a bit of an adventurer when it comes to food. A vegetarian for the first decade or so of my life, I've sort of vowed to make up for all those years by trying the widest range of food possible. The weirder it sounds, the more I want to try it. I'm not shy, inhibited or picky (still talking about food here, ahem). The weirdest sounding thing I've had is probably frog legs. Tastes like chicken :P

Ok, I'm bored with this section now.
The six things I could never do without
The internet
Very strong beliefs, or the ability to reach them
Emoticons :P ;)
And, at the risk of sounding completely corny, love--the security of old, deep love and the excitement of butterflies-in-the-stomach kind of new love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1) A lot of depressing things that have no answers.
2) A lot of fun things that require more creativity
3) Why Indians choose the "Asian" ethnicity on Okc instead of "Indian" :P And no, wise guy, don't try to tell me Okc is racist enough to call Native Americans "Indians".
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably out getting hammered. By "hammered", I (probably) mean drunk. Or curled up with a book, feeling antisocial. On a date. Online. Watching a movie. Trying out crazy outfits/makeup with girlfriends. Well, Friday nights. Who can say?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My bark is worse than my bite. Although my bite is pretty awesome ;)
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You know what?

DON'T message me asking for a blowjob, bitching about your girlfriend and how she doesn't satisfy you sexually (true story, bros). In fact, don't bitch to me at all about women I don't know. You'll be forever labeled in big bold letters (in bright red) as MISOGYNIST in my book, and I will block you.

Message me if you respect women as human beings.

DON'T message me, and then message me again, and again, and again, because I haven't replied. If I don't respond to your first message, it's probably because I haven't logged in for a while and my inbox is flooded with requests (yeah, sorry, gents, that's what it's like to be a woman on this site :P) and I haven't read yours yet. Or maybe I have and I'm not interested.

Message me if you think I'm interesting and if you're ready to deal with someone just disappearing on your for short periods of time initially.

And yeah, don't worry, at the end of the day, I'm pretty good at weeding ;)