Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an open-minded, honest, fun-loving, guy who likes nature,
sharing a laugh or two, and working with people toward a vision of
human togetherness. I like to feel deeply. contemplate fully, and
connect on levels that transcend superficiality. I adore intimate
human interaction and the feelings it brings.
I am currently single and looking for romantic partnership(s) where
the person(s) are not afraid or uncomfortable to love me as
passionately as I love them, hold me in a sacred place as I will
them, and offer intention and devotion to our relationship
regardless of what other relationships we develop along the
I am looking for romantic partnership(s) with best friend(s) who
are just as passionate about sharing their journey with me and
about sharing my journey with them (including fun crazy sex)
without possessiveness while still valuing and respecting each
others freedom to follow aspects of those journeys alone, have our
own identities, and be the charters of our own life courses.
I don't prescribe to the idea that there is only one other on this
Earth for each of us. So some might call me open or polyamorous
but I would
call myself multi-devotional
. I also
don't legitimize social age conventions since I have discovered
that much of my mentality doesn't fit with those of many from my
birth era but at the same time much of the way I see the world is
from experience that younger people still have yet to discover. So
I am open to dating individuals from a wide range of ages.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My most recent efforts are music
related. I play percussion for two
bands and percussion and bass for my own musical project. I also
write reviews and contributions related to the local music scene in
Tucson for an online site. I also recently started a business to do
music in which projects I am involved and for other musicians,
visual artists, and DJs.
I am also sharing my knowledge, beliefs and understandings about
the social world at the individual level via web courses, by doing
workshops at festivals like Burning Man
, tutoring, and through
Some of my other aspect of my life involve Building community
, resource sharing and
, and participating in the eight limbs of yoga
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
, and intense intellectual
. I am sure there are a few other things I didn't
mention here but you can ask me about anything when you send me a
The first things people usually notice about me
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My youthful and healthy
about my world, and passion
for life and the
people in it. It actually overwhelms many people, who often
describe me as intense
when they first meet me.
I worried about it for a while but I have gotten to the point of
being comfortable with not being able to or wanting to control what
others think or feel about me being me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
is one of
my favorite books because it gives a great explanation of how
humanity has caused its own exile from the metaphorical garden of
My most recent television production favorite is The Newsroom
because I believe
it really captures the struggle of what people who really want to
do the right thing in a corrupt situation go through.
In terms of music I really like jam bands
who just groove for hours,
especially those that know how to kick some Bluegrass and Funk. My
biggest Jam Band influences are The String Cheese Incident
Lately, I have also really been getting into The Grateful Dead
, Leftover Salmon
some older Funk and Jam artist I never knew about like Dr. John
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, Water, Food, Shelter, Communication, Nature, Fire, Fun, and
giving Love are all necessary for my survival. I know that is nine.
I'm a statistician so six is a factor of 3 so I am on par. Ha!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Consciousness, Society, Love, Quantum Physics, Psyche, and Sex
(like everyone else but having a Ph.D. gives some more legitimacy
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am either playing a show with my band, hanging out with my
special friends, or dancing, camping, singing karaoke
If I am not doing any of these things, I am just hanging out with a
bowl of popcorn or a few gluten-free cookies or brownies watching a
movie or a TV show (I don't watch TV regularly just shows that I
get via download).
My goal is do the latter again with a special love sometime soon. I
really like relaxing with partners to balance out my crazy hectic
intense life. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really enjoy nakedness, merging spirituality and sexuality, and I
have some interesting fetishes that you should feel free to ask me
You should message me if
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You are open to experiencing the world and people as they really
are and not as you think or as the social world thinks they should
You can appreciate the fact that people of all genders and
sexualities may see you as beautiful and attractive.
You are not afraid to share your feelings and your soul.
You understand that life and love are not zero-sum games.
You understand that love is an emotional feeling that is
experienced across humans not limited by sex or gender.
You are really good at massage because I can always use one of
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