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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25-50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 22
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm an open-minded, honest, fun-loving, guy who likes nature, sharing a laugh or two, and working with people toward a vision of human togetherness. I like to feel deeply. contemplate fully, and connect on levels that transcend superficiality. I adore intimate human interaction and the feelings it brings.

I just moved back to Colorado from Arizona and I am currently single looking for romantic partnership(s) where the person(s) are not afraid or uncomfortable to love me as passionately as I love them, hold me in a sacred place as I will them, and offer intention and devotion to our relationship regardless of what other relationships we develop along the way.

I am looking for a romantic partnership(s) with a best friend(s) who is just as passionate about sharing their journey with me and about sharing my journey with them (including fun crazy sex) without possessiveness while still valuing and respecting each others freedom to follow aspects of those journeys alone, have our own identities, and be the charters of our own life courses.

I don't prescribe to the idea that there is only one other on this Earth for each of us. So some might call me open or polyamorous but I would call myself multi-devotional,poly-sexual, and pansexual, which I personally think makes for a great time. I also don't legitimize social age conventions since I have discovered that much of my mentality doesn't fit with those of many from my birth era but at the same time much of the way I see the world is from experience that younger people still have yet to discover. So I am open to dating individuals from a wide range of ages.
What I’m doing with my life
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Some of my recent efforts are in the music and arts where I play percussion and bass and am just starting to learn guitar to play with my new musical project. I am a festival producer that also does some booking and promotions. But my most recent endeavor has been working with a buddy to write and produce a heady dramatic situation comedy about consciousness developing transformational experiences.

I am also sharing my knowledge, beliefs and understandings about the social world at the individual level via web courses, by doing workshops at festivals like Burning Man, tutoring, and through individual counseling.

Other activities of my life involve building community, resource sharing and exchanging, and participating in the eight limbs of yoga.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, helping, uplifting, motivating, music, devotion, and intense intellectual conversation. I am sure there are a few other things I didn't mention here but you can ask me about anything when you send me a message. ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My youthful and healthy appearance, optimism about my world, and passion for life and the people in it. It actually overwhelms many people, who often describe me as intense when they first meet me.

I worried about it for a while but I have gotten to the point of being comfortable with not caring about what others think or feel about me being me to the point I think I should change for them.

I'm searching for companions that like me as I am with the understanding that a relationship is about an evolvution of life together.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ishmael is one of my favorite books because it gives a great explanation of how humanity has caused its own exile from the metaphorical garden of Earth.

My most recent television production favorite is The Newsroom because I believe it really captures the struggle of what people who really want to do the right thing in a corrupt situation go through.

In terms of music I really like jam bands who just groove for hours, especially those that know how to kick some Bluegrass and Funk. My biggest Jam Band influences are The String Cheese Incident and Particle. Lately, I have also really been getting into The Grateful Dead, Leftover Salmon and some older Funk and Jam artist I never knew about like Dr. John.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, Water, Food, Shelter, Communication, Nature, Fire, Fun, and giving Love are all necessary for my survival. I know that is nine. I'm a statistician so six is a factor of 3 so I am on par. Ha!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Consciousness, Society, Love, Quantum Physics, Psyche, and Sex (like everyone else but having a Ph.D. gives some more legitimacy too it).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am either playing a show with my band, hanging out with my special friends, or dancing, camping, singing karaoke somewhere.

If I am not doing any of these things, I am just hanging out with a bowl of popcorn or a few gluten-free cookies or brownies watching a movie or a TV show (I don't watch TV regularly just shows that I get via download).

My goal is do the latter again with a special love sometime soon. I really like relaxing with partners to balance out my crazy hectic intense life. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really enjoy nakedness, merging spirituality and sexuality, and I have some interesting fetishes that you should feel free to ask me about.
You should message me if
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You are open to experiencing the world and people as they really are and not as you think or as the social world thinks they should be.

You can appreciate the fact that people of all genders and sexualities may see you as beautiful and attractive.

You are not afraid to share your feelings and your soul.

You understand that life and love are not zero-sum games.

You understand that love is an emotional feeling that is experienced across humans not limited by sex or gender.

You are not just looking for a friend because you are lonely and need a companion. No offense but I already have plenty of non-romantic friends with whom I am not physically intimate so those spots are taken. The open spots are for someone who is looking to transform the rest of life with me versus someone who needs me to transform the rest of their life. If you feel me on this, then you should definitely contact me.

You are really good at massage because I can always use one of those. :)