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40 • Denver, CO • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 4:02pm
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
I just moved back to Colorado from Arizona and I am currently single looking for romantic partnership(s) where the person(s) are not afraid or uncomfortable to love me as passionately as I love them, hold me in a sacred place as I will them, and offer intention and devotion to our relationship regardless of what other relationships we develop along the way.
I am looking for a romantic partnership(s) with a best friend(s) who is just as passionate about sharing their journey with me and about sharing my journey with them (including fun crazy sex) without possessiveness while still valuing and respecting each others freedom to follow aspects of those journeys alone, have our own identities, and be the charters of our own life courses.
I don't prescribe to the idea that there is only one other on this Earth for each of us. So some might call me open or polyamorous but I would call myself multi-devotional,poly-sexual, and pansexual, which I personally think makes for a great time. I also don't legitimize social age conventions since I have discovered that much of my mentality doesn't fit with those of many from my birth era but at the same time much of the way I see the world is from experience that younger people still have yet to discover. So I am open to dating individuals from a wide range of ages.
I am also sharing my knowledge, beliefs and understandings about the social world at the individual level via web courses, by doing workshops at festivals like Burning Man, tutoring, and through individual counseling.
Other activities of my life involve building community, resource sharing and exchanging, and participating in the eight limbs of yoga.
I worried about it for a while but I have gotten to the point of being comfortable with not caring about what others think or feel about me being me to the point I think I should change for them.
I'm searching for companions that like me as I am with the understanding that a relationship is about an evolvution of life together.
My most recent television production favorite is The Newsroom because I believe it really captures the struggle of what people who really want to do the right thing in a corrupt situation go through.
In terms of music I really like jam bands who just groove for hours, especially those that know how to kick some Bluegrass and Funk. My biggest Jam Band influences are The String Cheese Incident and Particle. Lately, I have also really been getting into The Grateful Dead, Leftover Salmon and some older Funk and Jam artist I never knew about like Dr. John.
If I am not doing any of these things, I am just hanging out with a bowl of popcorn or a few gluten-free cookies or brownies watching a movie or a TV show (I don't watch TV regularly just shows that I get via download).
My goal is do the latter again with a special love sometime soon. I really like relaxing with partners to balance out my crazy hectic intense life. :)
You can appreciate the fact that people of all genders and sexualities may see you as beautiful and attractive.
You are not afraid to share your feelings and your soul.
You understand that life and love are not zero-sum games.
You understand that love is an emotional feeling that is experienced across humans not limited by sex or gender.
You are not just looking for a friend because you are lonely and need a companion. No offense but I already have plenty of non-romantic friends with whom I am not physically intimate so those spots are taken. The open spots are for someone who is looking to transform the rest of life with me versus someone who needs me to transform the rest of their life. If you feel me on this, then you should definitely contact me.
You are really good at massage because I can always use one of those. :)
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