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urbanhashman

33 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:49am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Self-directed, autodidactic, and confident. People that know expect me to be a burner. Or a part of the community of skeptics. Unfortunately, I don't fit snugly into a specific social niche, so I frequent the outer rim of a whole lot of social circles.

Mostly I don't care about convention. In dating or otherwise, I like to do what I want and not give a crap what people think, except for the few people whose opinions I value. It's all about what works for me and who I'm with.

I do a lot of physical activities, including various martial arts, gymnastics and esoteric dances. So, while I enjoy a good time, dedication and persistence are as important.
What I’m doing with my life
Moving towards the film career. Also financing adventures. Because all adventures cost something.

Hustlin', Stuntin', looking ahead to the next hustle.

Making fantasy real. Which includes realizing the fantasy life, the fantasy ability and the fantasy career.
I’m really good at
A whole lot of things.

I'm a lover, a fighter, and a killer on the dancefloor.

Beast mode.

Making mistakes and learning from them.
The first things people usually notice about me
Generally speaking, people tell me that I'm attractive, that I'm intimidating, or that I'm doing it like a pro. Often, this can be all at the same time. I'm a multitasker. Just don't expect me to be boring and listen to rambling at the same time. Did I mention that I'm blunt? I demand a lot from myself, and while I usually refrain from verbally asking others to be their best selves, a lot of people seem to feel the pressure I exert on myself to achieve, and respond to it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm not much into the concept of interests bridging the gap between people.

Interpersonal connection is king. Saying 'Yes' will go further than 'band name'. 'Yes, and...' will go even further.

That said...

Books by people who did it their own way.
Richard Feynman. Russ Meyer. Charles Bukowski. Clint Eastwood.

Music with driving bass. Dubstep now, but I've got a diverse palate.

I choose not to watch or believe in the stereotyping and characterization in sitcoms. House of Cards, HIMYM and Scrubs being notable exceptions.

Movies with tight writing. Ever seen Hard Eight'? That's what I'm talking about. PT Anderson is one of my directing heroes. Brad Bird, the hitmaker. But as much as I like 'good' movies, I've been known to watch just about anything.

Food with clear flavors that's well executed. I'm as happy at Next as I am with good tacos.
The six things I could never do without
My body, knowledge , food, direction, entertainment, information, movement

I get most of these things out of myself, the people I know, and the internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to do things better. What I want. Where to find it. And how I've gone wrong.

Who I respect. Who I need to know. Who I should be talking to. What's next on the agenda. What I want, and what I need.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. At something. Indubitably.

Wrestling people, now with jiu-jitsu; Teaching you how to punch, kick and kick ass.

Loafing at home because I damn well deserve it.

Somewhere on the planet in good company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm tough enough to take pretty much anything. Through my life of working hard and dealing with issues, there're very few situations I can't handle.

I won't say no to anything I've never tried.

I have poly tendencies, kink affinity and need to be impressed. Despite my best efforts, those things seem to be constant.

I'm seeing someone, I'm non-monogamous, and neither of these two facts is changing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're dark haired, the hair is bangs or a bob, and curvacious like whoa. You will have my undivided attention for three to five minutes.

Kind of a sapiosexual. If you don't have higher level smarts, it probably won't work.

If you have both the aforementioned looks and brains, why haven't you messaged me already?

A smart dude that I can respect. I'm pretty short on bros these days.

You're an INTP, like me. Or another compatible type.

You're determined to learn, change and evolve. I can respect that. If you do it for not only yourself, but for others as well, you might be my hero.

You're unique: I value originality in thought and personality. Pushing for new and different expression, or thoughts and ideas I've never heard gets as many points with me as traditional style and charisma.

I also enjoy entertaining, brazen, opinionated people. Partially because it makes me feel more normal, and partially because these people are awesome. Hit me up if you're one of those.