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41 M Eugene, OR

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Today – 7:51am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats

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My self-summary
First off, I have no idea what urbanhillbilly means but you can't change it so we are going to have to deal with it.

I am an easy-going, calm, patient, considerate, articulate, forthright, amorous guy. I love my life. I love the quiet peace of nature. I shy away from human drama. That's right. Animal drama is fine.

I am not materialistic, not a shopper, not really ambitious. I love my life the way it is. I can be a little reserved unless we are talking about one of my passions like politics or the impending doom that our species have brought upon itself by being such materialistic, ambitious shoppers.

Some quotes I like....

There is no way to peace, peace is the way.

Make love, not war.

If you can't lead--follow. If you can't follow--criticize.

Ok, I just made that one up. I am not above quoting myself now and again.

But really I am more of a listener.
What I’m doing with my life
College is my gf right now. I am taking classes at LCC and uofo, mainly in religion and philosophy, but also meditation, yoga, tai chi, and volleyball.

My pattern is to emmerse myself in someone right away. But I would like to and must go slower as I don't have time outside of work and school.

Also I am seeking different kinds of connections, and prefer two whole beings coming together rather than two parts coming together. Parts sound romantic--I can't breath without you!--but these days that kind of dependency strikes me as troublesome and less rewarding.
I’m really good at
Taking most everything in stride.
Loving life.
Feeling good.
Helping others feel good.
Letting it be.
Seeing the big picture.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am tall.
I am peaceful and relaxed.
I am happy and optimistic.
I am a good listener.
I am intelligent and occasionally inspired(in other words I get ideas that I have no business having).
I am confident but not quite cocky.
I have a quiet, peaceful demeanor but I speak my truth and stand up for what I believe is right.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything 80's.
The Daily Show.
Amy Schumer. Sara Silverman. Louie CK. Anyone irreverent.
The six things I could never do without
Intoxication(most likely with one of the above)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Some examples....
How childhoods affect personality--like birth order, location, gender, genes, hormones, nutrition, whatever.

Like....I spent my first 11 years in Minnesota and then 8 in Honolulu. I think of my personality as having a wholesome rich Midwestern center with a more seasoned, tropical crust.

How to get the ladies on okcupid to think about eating me......

Hey! Gotcha there, didn't I? Damn, that was fun!

How to communicate information that is socially unacceptable with humor(or other inspirations of brilliance, beauty, complexity, simplicity, hedonism, empathy, selflessness, selfishness, humanity, humility, mortality, reality, practicality, progress[I am just going to stop here because I am starting to ramble!]).

What was the question?
On a typical Friday night I am
I love eugene! I love the restaurants, parks, hikes, trees, rivers, the david minor theater, bars. Not to mention the proximity to the mountains, the ocean, the valley, the hills...fucking wonderland really. Paradise. Don't tell anyone though. We got a good thing going here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am mainly looking for connections that allow for magnetic, electric, explosive, tender, passionate, fulfilling, exhausting get togethers at least once a week.

That I am open to a lot more than that with the right person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you know how to relax or really want to learn. I am a master. Master, I tell you.

If a hike, a movie, a drink, or a soak in a hot tub sounds like a good date.

If you think you might be able to keep up. I can relax at a frantic pace. It can be exhausting!


If you know what this means and it amuses you. For ever.

But if you voted for Bush, don't value pleasure or you are pessimistic we probably won't mesh. I am a die-hard liberal optimistic hedonist.