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28 Coburg, Australia Man


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  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Today – 7:57am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'd like to think that I'm smart and funny (but probably that kind of smart-ass, always-had-it-easy-so-comes-off-as-entitled intelligent that you find really irritating, and that kind of offensive funny that might make your mother upset that you've met me if you told her my jokes - unless you have a pretty cool mother).

I'm a nerdy kind of guy at heart, although I can certainly act otherwise when needed. Nerdy stuff is a huge passion of mine, from science, to reading, to tabletop/board/video games, to talking about any other kind of nerdy stuff (including a specific passion for discussing the psychology of nerds. Go figure!). Some of that I don't get to indulge in much, but I enjoy it when I find the time.
What I’m doing with my life
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Science and feelings!

I stumbled into studying psychology after high-school (with a partial detour in the form of a combined business/psych degree along the way). I've been working in the industry for a few years, and after getting back to study in 2011 to do Honours, I've just completed my Masters in Clinical Psychology and just got approved to be a professional feelings scientist (psychologist). Contrary to popular belief, this won't let me read your mind - they only teach that to the PhD and PsyD students.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Overthinking things. Procrastinating. Speaking too fast for my mouth to keep up. Letting my thoughts wander.

Boring work-related stuff like critical thinking, analysis, technical writing, APA formatting, and probability/statistics.

Fun stuff likegaming(tabletop, board, and video), writing, trivia, arguing, and learning new things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My presence (unless I'm being super-stealthy. I'm pretty good at being super-stealthy sometimes.)

I'm told my eyes are very blue (if you're the type that makes eye contact a lot. If you're the kind that stares at the ground instead, then perhaps my shoes?)

How fast I'm talking (if I'm excited)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Way too much to list, but I'll put a few for each category:

Books: Series like A Song of Ice and Fire; the Obernewytn Chronicles; the Abhorsen trilogy; Harry Potter; Dune. Authors like Neil Gaiman; Larry Niven; Keith Baker. Also, Dataclysm: Who We Are* *When We Think No One's Looking is amazing, especially for OKC users, even if I don't agree with all of the conclusions drawn.

Comics: Planetary; The Authority; Watchmen; A Softer World; Makeshift Miracle; The Wormworld Saga

Movies: I don't tend to rewatch movies, unless I've got someone new to show them to. If I had to list some though, Hackers (the best terrible movie of the 90s); Scott Pilgrim vs. the World; Stardust; Definitely Maybe, For a Good Time Call..., Hysteria.

Shows: Currently, Brooklyn Nine-Nine; Community; Parks & Recreation; Person of Interest; Alpha House; House of Cards. Previously, Happy Endings; Arrested Development; In Treatment; Fringe.

Music: Highlights of my 'current favourites' playlist are The Postal Service; Alanis Morissette; Paramore; Angels & Airwaves; Blink-182; The Hampdens; Goodnight Nurse; Taylor Swift; Sia.

Food: Caffeine; pretty much anything else that's not aquatic or mushroom-y.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends - but happy to make more
Internet access - thanks to smartphones, not much of an issue nowadays
Risk - the potential that a chosen action or activity will lead to an undesirable outcome, not the board game
Games - the more social, the better, so I prefer group things likeDungeons & Dragonsorboard gamesto video games. Yes, I'm aware being into D&D makes me sound super-nerdy, but I'm okay with that, because D&D is actually awesome, and so are my D&D-playing friends.
Critical thinking - I'm all for making rash decisions once in a while, but questioning assumptions is a big part of perceiving and communicating for me
Optimism - shit happens, and it's important to be able to either shrug it off or work through it, and then move on
Humour - if you're not laughing regularly, you're doing it wrong
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything: What life would be like after an apocalypse? Did that person just look at me funny? Is it getting cold in here, or is it just me? Do I know that person, or do they just look like someone else I know? Gee, the sky sure is blue today. What am I doing this weekend?

More seriously, I spend a lot of time thinking about other people's problems (in my therapy room), about social justice (in the world), about fairness (in games), about conscious and unconscious biases (in my actions), about privilege in all its forms.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... having some friends over for gaming
... staying in watching TV
... out with friends at a movie or an event
... not doing any more homework for postgrad!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One of my middle names is Kjelsberg. It's Norwegian, and the J is mostly silent.
You should message me if
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You're not looking for a therapist (you're welcome to have one, as long as it's not me!).

You can teach me something interesting, and are interested in learning something too.