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47 M Arden, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jul 1
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a natural photographer, comedian, entrepreneur and artist. I love to laugh and help people. I was raised by two crazy wonderful parents who enjoyed life perhaps too much. I was dragged around the world and spent most of my childhood at parties, camp fires, bars, restaurants, festivals and museums. Naturally, the entertainer in me blossomed. With that being said, please don't peg me for a clown just because I clown around. :) I have a serious side and am someone of principle. Hope you are too...

I have a big heart and have experienced the highs and lows of life. I have been blessed with a wonderful education and to have called Texas, Holland, Saudi Arabia, California and North Carolina my home. I have lived in Asheville for 13 years and truly adore these mountains. I love Western North Carolina and I think many people confuse the hipster, liberal and avant guard (cough) city of Asheville with over all Western Kakalaki culture. The two are very different. In a post-Kardashian age how can we tell the difference? If you and I ever go on on a third date - Ill take you to the top of the world for a picnic to listen the secret sound that clouds make when skirting mountain tops. Perhaps there in the thickets of sage and rhododendrons we can find the language of love - most likely it will be a raccoon eating your sandwich. I watched this when I was in an infantry unit training in the Sierra's of Northern California with the national guard. Sat on a rattle snake once. Kicked a dead porcupine on the road to saving the redwoods and it landed on my head. Danced with a she-bear on tequila. Sailed on ship with enemies from four wars and caught a shark together to promote world peace. We ate the shark. Climbed every mountain in the human soul.

Do you like rock-n-roll, punk, old school punk and new wave, alternative/Americana, old time music, classical, flamenco, downbeat, dirty south crunk and deep folk and early jazz? Same here. Music has saved my soul - more than all the crappy abstract paintings I have made from deep friend garbage. Literature? Why yes. Old things mostly - Kafka, Paine and Aristotle. Love surrealism and magical realism - well we woke up on a planet covered by sun and moonlight - of course.

By all accounts I am attracted to cold and unavailable women. Please don't be that as I am avoiding all pain-body driven experiences. What I am I listening to now - Adair - The Diamond Ring….time for a walk.
What I’m doing with my life
Own my own marketing agency. I am a partner in a bar, restaurant and musical venue. Raising my daughter less than half time, saving money to buy a farm in Buncombe country. I am a veteran and currently debating which graduate school to go to (cheesy and on-line) courtesy of the VA. Hooah!
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. Fixing things. Drawing. Singing. Drums. Cooking anything. X-ray vision into peoples souls. Dissolving violent and insane situations to a peaceful resolution. Gardening. Making compost. Repairing engines made before 1968. Using tools. Imagination. Helping people calm the f*k down. Healing people with essential oils and herbs. Taking long walks in silence.
The first things people usually notice about me
Green eyes and the smille on my face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all sorts of movies, music and food. The stranger the better.
The six things I could never do without
my child, a classic book, grand vistas, my truck, rock and roll, the ocean
On a typical Friday night I am
reading, walking in the moonlit woods, preparing a small feast for friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i want to have a deep loving relationship with a single woman. i have been celibate for a few years and am tired of not dating...its been an interesting ride..
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are happy, under 5'6" healthy and sane and are looking for a possible LTR