Honesty: Can you handle it?
Looking for my Autumn (movie reference and bonus points if you know the movie)
I want an optimist. Someone that believes the grass is greener where you water it. I am looking for someone with warmth who is charming and can be tastefully flirtatious. I’d like to find a woman who wants and likes to talk and listen. I'm looking for someone who believes respect for family and people in general is important. Must be able to communicate their feelings without busting drama, ok a little drama is ok but as long as it's little and far in between. I'm optimistic myself and my approach to bad things that happen in life is to find the lesson in it. I'm ambitious and talented. I love my job and what I do so that means I won't come home complaining about it!! I'm laid back, a great friend and good listener ( really ) ... what'd you say? ;-) I like to be goofy, when it is appropriate. I'm open-minded, passionate, intelligent, thoughtful and humble. As long as I am around you will never have to open your door or pump your own gas, yes really! Not because you can't but because I'm there. I'm a natural gentleman and looking for someone who can appreciate that.
One more thing and it's ok if you disagree, yes it would seem important but in the long run I feel chemistry is overrated, I'd rather make something long lasting happily together. We rely heavily on sight for chemistry and nature designed us that way so I don't deny it has influence, I'm human after all. However, imagine for a bit not having your sight and falling in love with a person for their character, that's what I want. I want to love my partner even when my eyes are closed
One small request: Yes, I have kids and if you don't mind I don't like bringing them up until I'm comfortable. Being asked about them too soon is not good. That being said, I'm here for me so I'd like to stick to getting to know each other first. Too honest? I will always be.