34 Brooklyn, NY
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My self-summary
A friend described me this way . . .

"He has sensitive antennae, avoids confrontation, but is keenly observant. He is not a star. He doesn't want adulation. He wants regard. He wants recognition and entree to a world of smart, tough, ambitious people, and he wants a place there."

Initially I can be bold, brash and full of bravado - but beyond the schtick I'm easy going.

E/INFJ depending but always heavy on the NF

I have a problematic relationship with Capitalism

Eccentric, unconventional and insatiably curious.
What I’m doing with my life
I oversee a clinic for individuals with disabilities.

Part time - religion blogger, book critic, playwright, DIY enthusiast.

aspiring polymath - more often a dilettante

pickling, preserving and planting
I’m really good at
cooking and cleaning, knowing a guy, ranting and raving, listening, all things ancient world, random acts of kindness, remembering information from high school biology, un-surreptitiously using big words
The first things people usually notice about me
That I can't walk or think in a straight line.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Rule of the Bone, Women in Love, Raymond Carver etc.

Dog Day Afternoon, Lawrence of Arabia, Rushmore, Singles etc.

Twin Peaks, Metalocalypse, I Claudius, Simpsons (old) etc.

Replacements, Reagan Youth, Leonard Cohen, Mahler etc.

eggplant, salty cheese, pizza of all shapes, arugula, crusty bread etc.
The six things I could never do without
olive oil, podcasts, my cat, playlists, a to do list and good lighting
I spend a lot of time thinking about
alleviating anxiety, digestive health, what to make next, tangents, defensive pessimism, that thing I heard on NPR, Byzantium.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having an existential crisis and watching Netflix
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not always easy- I need alot but I give even more.
You should message me if
If you're self aware, a little angsty, affectionate, communicative, curious, creative, social justice-y, spiritual, earnest, ggg, stuck in the early 90's, cat friendly and Jewy.

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