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33 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:54pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Wants kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Okay)

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My self-summary
out of the country for the next two weeks

A friend described me this way . . .

"He has sensitive antennae, avoids confrontation, but is keenly observant. He is not a star. He doesn't want adulation. He wants regard. He wants recognition and entree to a world of smart, tough, ambitious people, and he wants a place there."

Initially I can be bold, brash and full of bravado - but beyond the schtick I'm more on the quiet side and prefer cozy over crowded.

E/INFJ depending but always heavy on the NF

I have a problematic relationship with Capitalism

I've had several negative experiences on this site . . . but I'm open to having my expectations changed
What I’m doing with my life
Full time - chilling with senior citizens with disabilities, aka I dance, sing and talk about feelings with old ladies.

Part time - psychotherapist, religion blogger, playwright, Jewish educator, DIY enthusiast.

aspiring polymath - more often a dilettante

pickling, preserving and sprouting
I’m really good at
cooking and cleaning, knowing a guy, ranting and raving, listening, all things ancient world, random acts of kindness, remembering information from high school biology, un-surreptitiously using big words, first aid.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I can't walk or think in a straight line.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Rule of the Bone, Women in Love, Raymond Carver etc.

Dog Day Afternoon, Lawrence of Arabia, Rushmore, Singles etc.

Twin Peaks, Metalocalypse, I Claudius, Simpsons (old) etc.

Replacements, Matisyahu, Leonard Cohen, Mahler, Iron Maiden etc.

eggplant, salty cheese, pizza of all types, arugula, crusty bread etc.
The six things I could never do without
olive oil, podcasts, my cat, playlists, a to do list and good lighting
I spend a lot of time thinking about
alleviating anxiety, digestive health, recipes, what to make next, tangents, defensive pessimism, that thing I heard on NPR, economic inequality, the battle of Zama, how to not kill plants
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying not to spend too much money on booze.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Everyone has baggage maybe we have have matching luggage?

I have an act:

I don't do brunch
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're a little angsty, affectionate, communicative, curious, creative, social justice-y, spiritual, earnest, ggg, stuck in the early 90's, cat friendly and Jewy.

DO NOT MESSAGE ME if you're on the rebound, are a Republican, live in Africa or you're this guy:,34010/