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33 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–99
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Wants kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A friend described me this way . . .

"He has sensitive antennae, avoids confrontation, but is keenly observant. He is not a star. He doesn't want adulation. He wants regard. He wants recognition and entree to a world of smart, tough, ambitious people, and he wants a place there."

Initially I can be bold, brash and full of bravado - but beyond the schtick I'm more on the quiet side and prefer cozy over crowded.

E/INFJ depending but always heavy on the NF

I have a problematic relationship with Capitalism

I'm against it:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Full time - chilling with senior citizens with disabilities, aka I dance, sing and talk about feelings with old ladies.

Part time - psychotherapist, religion blogger, playwright, Jewish educator, DIY enthusiast.

aspiring polymath - more often a dilettante

pickling, preserving and sprouting
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking and cleaning, knowing a guy, ranting and raving, listening, all things ancient world, random acts of kindness, remembering information from high school biology, un-surreptitiously using big words, first aid.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I can't walk or think in a straight line.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Rule of the Bone, Women in Love, Raymond Carver etc.

Dog Day Afternoon, Lawrence of Arabia, Rushmore, Singles etc.

Twin Peaks, Metalocalypse, I Claudius, Simpsons (old) etc.

Replacements, Reagan Youth, Leonard Cohen, Mahler etc.

eggplant, salty cheese, pizza of all shapes, arugula, crusty bread etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
olive oil, podcasts, my cat, playlists, a to do list and good lighting
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
alleviating anxiety, digestive health, recipes, what to make next, tangents, defensive pessimism, that thing I heard on NPR, economic inequality, the battle of Zama, how to not kill plants
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying not to spend too much money on booze.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everyone has baggage maybe we have have matching luggage?

I have an act:

I don't do brunch
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're a little angsty, affectionate, communicative, curious, creative, social justice-y, spiritual, earnest, ggg, stuck in the early 90's, cat friendly and Jewy.

DO NOT MESSAGE ME if you're on the rebound, are a Republican, you "work hard play hard," live in Africa or you're this guy:,34010/