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41 M New Haven, CT

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Dropped out of space camp
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
A little about me: CT Yankee born & bred. Handy with tools and local lore. Looking for new friends and experiences.
I'm always up to try new restaurants and dishes. I love the outdoors. Hiking, biking, running, swimming, boating, anything to keep moving. The water is my life blood and never want to live too far from it. Not much of a sports guy, but I am willing to learn and would certainly encourage your interests.

There are a few things on my shortlist that I hope to get to in the coming months. I'm also a musician, so learning new instruments is on that short list too.

My passport is woefully blank right now. Travel is definitely in the works.
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring my inner vegetarian, developing new business models, shopping for boats, looking for the girl who will make my heart skip a beat
I’m really good at
making you wonder
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Cat's Cradle, The Adventure Capitalist, Life of Pi, The Four Hour Chef, American Small Sailing Craft- Their Design Development & Construction

Movies: I love movies, sometimes even bad ones

Music: I'm a bass player, so anything with a melody line is good with me. Though I am really into the banjo & concertina right now.

The Boban Markovic Orkestar, The Lambrettas, Trampled by Turtles, Bill Withers, Quick Silver Messenger Service, Thin Lizzie, Dead, Garcia Grisman, Leo Kottke, Jake Shimibukuro, Keller Williams, old Black Sabbath, classic heavy metal, Southern Rock, I've been listening to a lot of 60's & 70's stuff. I would like to modernize my collection...any suggestions?

Food: French preferably, sushi is a must, Indian, Italian, Middle Eastern, American Fusion... the list goes on
The six things I could never do without
Food, Water, maybe a blanket, a challenge...
oh and coffee! I loves me some coffee, mmmm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Moving to New York
Quiting my job and sailing around the world.
Also forming a Ska band to cover Kingston Trio songs.
Wanna join me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Either working or checking out a band
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
(sometimes I go to the movies alone....during work)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You don't mind getting dirty, but clean up well. Love salt water, can find good music anywhere, can find good in all things, have some patience, can laugh at yourself and of course at me.

Aaannd here's the disclaimer:
I have come to the understanding that there are numerous sets of rules by which people communicate here and my standard may not be the one that you are accustomed to. So here's the deal… If I have sent you an email and/or we are chatting, that means I would like to meet you in person. I'm not going to rush to ask you out, I feel the conversation should develop naturally. But a few days of emails should be enough to convince you that I am real and sincere. If you would like to meet sooner, by all means please let me know.

As for chatting, if you reply with short answers and don't ask questions, I am left to assume that you're not interested and are being polite. If you are in fact not interested, there is no need to respond unless of course you would like to be polite. In which case the phrase, "I'm sorry, but I don't think we're a match" would be perfectly acceptable. Feel free to use it on other men, it is not copyrighted.

If you would like to meet me, I will travel to you and seek to find a nice place in your area. Coffee, a glass of wine, some food, or just a place where we can talk for a bit. Whatever we decide, it's my treat. I met a woman once who's rule was one hour and she was strict about it. I'm not that strict, but it is important to meet face to face sooner rather than later.

I am here looking for a real relationship. A beautiful woman to join me on all the adventures listed above as well as all the ones on her page. If my profile is active, that means I am single. Not that I am seeing someone and going behind her back. I am online a lot. Besides my regular job, I also build and market websites for fun.

Lastly, if I have written to you and said something stupid please don't consider it the be all end all of my capabilities.
Many of you have profiles that leave little room for opening questions and I'm guessing at what might illicit a response. Feel free to write back with the phrase "That was not the best thing to say to get my attention, why do you try this ___(insert your own question)___"
You may also use this response on other men, it is not copyrighted either.

I'm sorry to have to write this, but I cannot help to wonder about the lost opportunities due to misunderstandings. If you have any other rules or guidelines that you would like to add please let me know.
Many thanks to the gracious women who have enlightened me thus far.

Now, go have fun!