I am a father of two wonderful girls and they are a large and important part of my life. I take it very serious to set them up for success. That's not just a financial thing, it's teaching them good work ethics, responsibility for their actions, respect for other, etc. I love being their dad and watching them grow up into wonderful young ladies has got to be the most rewarding thing I have ever done with my life.
I am looking for someone special to spend quality time with. I am shy and quiet until I get to know you and once we become friends you will find I am more concerned for others than myself. I feel like I am an encourager weather it be seeing someone, or a friend that's having a hard time, and to lift them up, remind them that they are special in their very own way. Life is too short to go around with our heads down and letting every disappointment that comes along dictate my, or someone I care abouts day ! We have the opportunity to "bank" with the people around us....either we are making a deposit in someone's life or we are making a withdrawal ! ( sorry don't know why I got off on that )
I am an affectionate person and very compassionate to others. I love holding hands and that kind of thing. Sometimes a sweet look of soft touch can say more than words. I believe affection lacks in a lot of relationship today, yes physical attraction is important but what's there when you get old and those things go away. So many relationships today the couples are not even friends, they love and care for each other but dont even know each other !?! The special people in your life need to know that they are special, how they are special! Security is something else that lacks today as well. No worries here...if I'm yours...I'm yours alone. Cheaters suck ! I'm a bit old fashion. I like to open doors and that kind of thing. I also believe good relationships are not found they are built. I don't do the bar thing. There is nothing for me there. I am not going to jump into bed with you, that's not my thing and if that's what your looking for sorry. I should have said it earlier before you had to read this far. If that's what I was looking for I wouldn't be on here, trust me sex is everywhere and you can do it with just about anyone, anytime. I am looking for a girl that wants to be taken care of but able to do things on her own. I want a lady with standards, self motivated and knows what she wants. Someone who's not afraid to let someone in and be part of them, care for them, be there for them. Yea you know who I'm talking about :) - here I go again, sorry.
Trust is important to me and I feel it necessary in a relationship along with communication. I am confident in who I am and I know what I want in a relationship. I'm a hard working guy and I am a good provider. I feel it's the mans responsibility to be the leader of the home. Not as in a dictatorship because it take all parties involved working together in order to make it a home. I always try to make peace but have no problem standing up for who I am and what I believe.I don't say this to sound arrogant but I don't live my life for someone else's approval. I am who I am.