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ustesq

33 / M / gay / Single

Washington, District of Columbia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
$250,000–$500,000
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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I am good-hearted, educated, and professional.

My Self-Summary

Smart, educated professional here. It seems like I have a lot going for me these days (career, great family and friends, financial/emotional stability) but always looking to meet new people outside of the bar/club scene. I prefer other well-educated, stable, professional and good looking guys. Guys who can talk about something else besides the scene or pop culture. Guys who read the newspaper and are capable of an intelligent conversation (I definitely consider myself more of a liberal, but politics has never been a pre-requisite for dating). Guys who are into travel. Guys who can appreciate a good catch and have a good heart.

What I’m doing with my life

I work as an attorney at a large law firm downtown. The hours can be brutal at times, but I generally enjoy my job and the intellectual challenge that it brings.

I’m really good at

Planning a vacation. Seriously. I have at least 3 trips planned at any given time. I love exploring the globe. And I'm a master at finding travel deals.

The first things people usually notice about me

I've been told my eyes. They're blue. Some guys like that. And then probably my ability to talk about geeky subjects like finance and tax law.

The *last* thing people notice about me is probably my sense of humor. It's very dry, and I'm a quiet guy, so my words can be read wrong at times. I chalk it up to being an INTJ.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books = anything non-legal. Though I do occasionally like a good legal mystery.

They are so varied it would be hard to describe. I like comedies, basically because I don't like to be depressed when I actually find myself with a few hours to watch a movie.

As for music and food, seriously anything. I will try anything. And if I like something I will repeat it multiple times (e.g., Ethiopian food) until I am tired of eating it.

The six things I could never do without

1) My dog (she's awesome, really)

2) My blackberry (because I'd be fired, it's that simple)

3) My carry on suitcase (just within the airline limits because I refuse to check baggage)

4) My satellite radio

5) Coffee

6) Living in a large city with plenty to do

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future. Where I will be and what I will be doing. Until I realize that planning can be useless. I would never have imagined I would be where I am five years ago, so I'm sure I have no idea where life will take me. But I will enjoy the ride!

On a typical Friday night I am

It totally depends. Sometimes it's catching up with a good friend over dinner. Other times it's sitting on my couch watching HGTV with my dog and a glass of wine. I am least likely to be found at a crazy bar on Friday night. Saturday, maybe, but not Friday.

You should message me if

(1) You have some sort of career ambition (doesn't matter what it is, it's just that you have goals).

(2) You are not too shallow or too into material things (or yourself).

(3) You consider yourself either a romantic or a trustworthy friend.

(4) You are reliable and/or responsible

(5) You know the difference between your/you're, there/their/they're, its/it's. And you've never used the word irregardless. Ever.

Either way, I always enjoy meeting new people, so feel free to shoot me a message and we'll go from there.