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49 San Diego, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:43pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ahhh, finally jumping into the world of online dating. I love these little autobiographies! The following has been duly vetted by my female friends who will vouch for its (relative) accuracy and authenticity:

I'm a recovering attorney (got my 10-year chip last year!) turned real estate developer and now investor. I'm smart, educated, outgoing and I don't take myself too seriously. I'm interested in and know a little bit about a lot of things, which makes me a good conversationalist, fun at parties, and good at Trivial Pursuit. I've been shaving my head for well over 10 years and at this point I have no other hair-styling options. I'm compassionate and a good listener. I'm moderately athletic, stay fit at the gym, doing yoga or running on the boardwalk, but I'm certainly not obsessive about it - frankly, I do it mostly so I can indulge (within reason) without turning into Jabba the Hutt. I have an encyclopedic knowledge of 80's music, although I admit I'm a little weak on the mid-80's hair bands (music really should have guitars and/or horns, preferably both). I have a young son from my previous relationship who lives with Mom (we're on good terms) and who I see often - he is an absolute joy. I am generally happy, upbeat, have a great smile, and have been called "cute" and even "charming".

I'm passionate about travel, scuba diving and photography and I get to combine all three as an underwater photographer. This has the distinct advantage of taking me to lots of warm, tropical places and when I'm not diving, I'm out exploring as many other exotic and photogenic locations as I can get to. You're more likely to find me at some remote temple or some crazy festival (yes, I've been to Burning Man) rather than lounging at some "all-inclusive" resort or just lying on a beach somewhere (besides, we have nice beaches here). Although there's certainly nothing wrong with an adult beverage overlooking the ocean at sunset!

I'm looking to date with an eye towards a committed relationship. I have a ridiculously amazing life and I'm looking to create something equally amazing with the right woman, someone to share and explore the world with. Someone who's smart, educated, warm, and fun with a sense of adventure and play (like me). Brains and sass are definite pluses - cute would be nice too. Someone who's up for everything from an art opening or a back yard barbecue with friends to a weekend in Napa or an African safari. Or maybe even just making dinners in and snuggling on the sofa in sweats binge watching Breaking Bad.

But enough about me - how about you? What are you passionate about? How can I support you in that? What's your idea of a good team?

If any of this sounds at all intriguing, please send me a note and let's chat. Maybe meet somewhere casual and fun, hang out for a bit and see if there's chemistry - which after all is really what it's all about. Hey, it's just a cup of coffee (or better yet, a glass of wine) - no matter what, I can guarantee good conversation!

UPDATE (12/14):
OK, I have to admit I've done pretty much nothing on this site for the last year, so I apologize to those I haven't gotten back to. But I had a hell of a time traveling to some amazing places and taking some great pictures, both below and above the water. Let's start dating and go somewhere really cool in 2015!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to figure out how to use my camera - those manuals are f**ing worthless!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Snarky answers to these profile questions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My good "energy" (that's not too woo-woo or New Age-y, is it?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
In no particular order: Spicy food, pizza, good wine, Jon Stewart, Anthony Bourdain, South Park, Tosh.0, the blues, 80's music, Sinatra, The Swami Sound System, NPR, The Tao of Pooh (the original was pretty good, too), Casablanca (the movie, although the place would be cool), The Ten Commandments (the source of most of my Judaic knowledge), The Godfather I and II (III sucked, right?).

Bonus dork/geek admissions: The Sound of Music (how DO you solve a problem like Maria?), Harry Potter (the books), Grease, The Princess Bride, Antiques Roadshow.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Red wine
My beach cruiser
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's for dinner?

Who put the ram in the ram-a-lama-ding-dong?

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Passed out in some Asian back-alley wondering who stole my kidney.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I shot JR. Or the sheriff. Frankly, I may have been drunk at the time...

Oh yeah, I fudged my age - I'm actually (*gasp*) 53. But you'd never know. Really. Besides, that's the same age as George Clooney, a year older than Tom Cruise, and only 2 years older than Brad Pitt. So I got that going for me (right?).
You should message me if
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My profile at least made you chuckle.