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v-tine

44 / M / Gay / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
May 18
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Aged twink/aspiring silver fox. Artfag, raconteur, word nerd, Hobbit chaser, hair hopper, inveterate punner (you've been warned). I speak Jive, Faerie, movie dialogue, English and just enough Spanish to get my face slapped, though I endeavor to be a gentleman.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend my waking hours as an actor, costumer and general supporter of all things artsy. I'm happy to make a living doing things that are meaningful to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I remind a lot of people of someone they know. In the most random places, people assume I work there. I don't know what this means. I'm often asked if I'm in a band. Maybe I need one to justify my haircuts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Reading matter...
"Stolen Child", "Man Who Fell in Love with the Moon", "Was", Gregory Maguire, PG Wodehouse, Tennessee Williams, Dan Savage, the Sedaris', biographies, historical novels about hookers and gender pioneers. Just read and loved Brom's "Krampus" and "Child Thief".

Currently...
True Blood, Mad Men, 30 Rock, Nurse Jackie, Downton Abbey, Smash, Parks and Rec.
The Classics...
Strangers w Candy, Mighty Boosh, Carnivale, Sex N City (still a guilty pleasure), Kids in the Hall.

Movies....
Everything Cassavettes, Barry Levinson, Fosse Fosse FOSSE. Tim Burton (some with the sound off), classics in glorious B&W.
The Fall, Cabaret, All That Jazz, City of Lost Children, Postcards from the Edge, All About Eve, Streetcar Named Desire, Talented Mr Ripley, Diner, RHPS.

Don't make me choose between Blanchett, Mirren, Dench, Close, Streep, Rowlands, Jessica Lange, Holly Hunter, Laura Linney. Depp, McKellen, Goldblum, Downey Jr., Paul Rudd....

I collect little suitcases and old jack-in-the-boxes.
The six things I could never do without
my friends
Words with Friends
jeans that fit
disco naps
hot showers
chips and salsa (is that 2 things?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my next meal and my next adventure.
On a typical Friday night I am
In a play or at a play. I attend a lot of theatre, eat out and I'm always ready to go bowling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm tired of having fun. I want to be in a relationship.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you have a sense of the absurd, prefer talking to texting.

I find all sorts of God's creatures appealing, though I do have a penchant for short guys and tight pants hipsters. Matadors, jockeys, satyrs and chimney sweeps welcome.