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v_mayhem_mez

19 / F / gay / Single

Wolverhampton, United Kingdom

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am funny, sporty, and slightly mad?.

My Self-Summary

Well, I hate writing about myself, I either babble forever or don't know what to say. Either way it will not be constructive.
I love sport, whether its playing, watching or coaching. I play rugby union and absoloutely love it. I've also played hockey, football, badminton and tennis in the past.
I really like surfing as well, preferably in Pembrokeshire which is like my favourite place in the world, the scenery is beautiful and so tranquil.
I work part time at the moment but I'll hopefully be starting a full time job soon.
I like driving, infact I am the token designated driver of my group of friends because I don't really drink a lot. However this does lead to me being irritable and cranky when I have to drive people home at 5 am.
I love spending time with my friends, and am happiest in a group. I can cope one on one too though lol, sometimes I talk too much but then I can just be told to shut up.
I should probably stop now. =)

What I’m doing with my life

Welllllllll....I currently work part-time in a bar which is fun but hopefully I'll be starting a full time job with the MOD in September (fingers crossed). I also play and coach rugby. I also go out a lot.

I’m really good at

talking, listening, playing rugby, making cocktails, driving, surfing.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know, I've never asked anyone this. I think people only notice me once they've started talking to me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books it has to be; Angels and Demons by Dan Brown, The God Delusion by Richard Hawkins, The Secret History of the World by Jonathan Black, The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas by John Boyne, An Utterly Impartial History of Britain by John O Farrel, The Harry Potter books, The Lord of the Rings books and any autobiograpghy or book about rugby.

Movies: I love horror, although I get scared. The Shining is one of my all time favourites. I also really like war films; my favourite being The Deer Hunter. In terms of light heartedness it has to be Mean Girls all the way. I like the History Boys, and The Mummy and Mummy Returns which are like the best things ever. Oh and Gia. I could actually go on for a while, I basically like many films.

Music: I like all music, I actually do have an eclectic music taste. Mainly because I'm pretty tone deaf so find it hard to hear rhythmn and tunes and beats so I just listen to things I like the words of. Anything from Kanye West to Pendulum to Pink to The Temptations to Slipknot to Britney to Linkin Park to The Jam.

Food: I'll eat basically anything but I do love Thai food, unless its too spicy, then it makes me cry lol.

The six things I could never do without

My Friends
My Family
Rugby
Music
My Dog
My Phone

I spend a lot of time thinking about

everything, I hate it when I sit and think for ages because I get really philosophical then come up with all these questions that no one can answer and then I wind myself up and have to go chill out lol. I also think a lot about rugby and how I can become a better player and coach. I also think about the future a lot, I like to look and plan ahead.

On a typical Friday night I am

either in Stourbridge, Wolvo or Birmingham with my friends dancing away like a crazy mofo.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm a kind of challenging person, well thats my opinion anyway but people tend to have to bear with me and my idiosyncrasies.

You should message me if

you just want a chat about anything really. I do like to listen and I love to talk to new people and gain new experiences. I think that if you're not always learning and growing as a person then there's not much point in being here.