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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 20, 2014
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Full figured
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on University
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm polyamorous (open, honest intimate relationships with multiple people), am in a committed relationship with my husband, and have a boyfriend. If that's not something you can handle, it's understandable-but it needs to be clear what I'm about.

What I'm NOT about is cheating. Cheating involves deception and deception is not acceptable. Truth and trust are paramount. So, if you're in a monogamous relationship and you're here to find extra-monogamous partners on the down low, keep looking, I'm not the one (no offense at all, and no judgment. What you do is what you do, and what I do is what I do. I don't do dishonesty).

Family comes first for me and always will, but life is too short not to have some fun. I'm a peace-and-love hippy at heart. I'm shy, quiet, introverted, and somewhat serious at first, but once I open up or a topic comes up that I have knowledge or passion about, I can talk for hours. Sometimes I feel like a walking contradiction. If that intrigues you rather than scares you, we should talk.
What I’m doing with my life
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Full-time college and raising a family are my main priorities in life at this stage. I consider myself a "lifelong learner," a "knowledge is power" sort of person. I plan to be in school for the next 3-5 years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Research, knowledge-gathering, nurturing, listening, philosophizing, empathizing, analyzing (some would say overanalyzing at times).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have big boobs and I'm smart but shy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Harry Potter. Anything by Christopher Moore. These days I read only textbooks, though.

Lord of the Rings trilogy. The Hobbit. Shaun of the Dead. Napoleon Dynamite. The Sasquatch Gang. Idiocracy. Half Baked. Grandma's Boy. Pineapple Express. The Big Lebowski. The Rocky Horror Picture Show. Serenity. Many, many more.

We haven't had broadcast/cable/satellite TV in years, but we have Netflix and I watch mostly documentaries and sci-fi or fantasy. Love NOVA, National Geographic, and History Channel shows. Dr. Who. Torchwood. Sherlock. Angel. Buffy. Being Human. Lots more.

Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Puscifer, Korn, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Everlast, REM, Disturbed, Hinder, Seether, Five Finger Death Punch, Blind Melon, Mumford & Sons, Pink Floyd, Chevelle, Three Days Grace, Breaking Benjamin, Puddle of Mudd, Cake, Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers, Staind, Shinedown, Sublime, Bad Company, Rehab, Def Leppard, Poison, Guns & Roses, Tracy Chapman, Alex Clare, Imagine Dragons. Lots, lots more. Music is a huge part of my life, and I love analyzing the lyrics to my favorite songs.

Mexican and Chinese are my favorite types of food, preferably with lots of veggies and as spicy-hot as possible.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
Good food
My laptop/internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Way too much to list! There are always a million things rattling around in my head. Usually deep, boring (to most people) things like world peace, personal freedoms and human rights, including the right to keep all of the body parts we're born with unless there is a compelling reason to remove those parts (i.e. I'm against routine circumcision of minors, whether they are male, female, or intersex). I speak out on this issue and others on a regular basis, so if this makes you uncomfortable, I'm probably not for you. Lastly-while I'm quite open to all sorts of people, we simply will NOT click if you're a hardcore conservative Republican, pushy about religion, rigid about prescribed gender roles, racist, dislike hippies, or require women you're with to be clean-shaven at all times. Hey, I said I was a hippy, didn't I?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at home working on homework, usually...if not that, then sitting at home researching or learning about some new concept or idea I've come across. Sad but true.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Openly admitting I'm in an open relationship, on a public site, with my real photo attached, is pretty private...why don't we take it a step further and include my BDSM score (you can take the quiz here: )?

Experimental 100%
Masochist 82%
Submissive 79%
Exhibitionist/Voyeur 68%
Switch 68%
Sadist 54%
Bondage 50%
Dominant 32%
Vanilla 0%
You should message me if
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You're open-minded, honest, and intelligent while not thinking you're superior to everyone else. I like people who read books more than they watch sports, people who know more about basic geography than they know about the personal lives of celebrities, people who consider music an essential part of their lives, people who never want to stop learning, who never assume they know it all. Geeky, nerdy, animal-lovers are always great. :)