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27 M Aptos, CA

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I want a girl who gets up early. I want a girl who stays up late. I want a girl with uninterrupted prosperity, who uses a machete to cut through red tape.

I'm looking for a mentor and positive influence. I have great desire to get back into athletic shape and would benefit greatly from a friendly trainer.

My name is Vaden and I was born and raised in Santa Cruz. I'm the oldest of 2 boys. My brother and I don't look very much alike, but you can tell we're brothers non the less. My family's security is very important to me, I will always put them first.

I have two awesomely historic names.
Dustin, after Hannah Duston
Pascal, you know that Blaise guy?

I love to lend myself to a cause I feel will benefit my peers, because when I see happiness in others it makes me overjoyed. Building or fixing things is exciting and gives me a sense of accomplishment. Legos were my favorite toy as a child. Solving problems and making quick decisions is something I've had a lot of practice at and would consider a well developed skill. Driving is one of my absolute favorite things to do. I've been called "Mario Andretti" and "Steve McQueen" so buckle up!
What I’m doing with my life
Turning it off and back on again.

Raising my wonderful daughter.

Living to be happy.

Working in San Jose, Monday to Friday.
I’m really good at
Listening, Understanding, Writing, Honesty, Persuasion, Punctuality, Disc Golf, Video Games, Kissing, Learning, Teaching, Patience
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, I tower over most at 6'4".

"That you looked like a very nice guy who made effort to behave as a gentleman to seduce me, and I thought that was very cute" Gaelle

"hmm well the thing that I would describe is when I talked to you we could lock eyes and I felt really connected and like we were in our own world. How to put that in words is hard. Charming is to small" Maria

"You drink far too much water and not enough whiskey." Grace

"That you sing exactly like Johnny Cash" Patrick
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Top 5 Bands (no order) :
Black Sabbath, AC-DC, Pink Floyd, Queen, Archer

My music taste is far more eclectic than what you may initially believe from my top 5.

I read articles, essays, spiritual texts, documents, instruction manuals, short stories(science fiction), poetry, biographies, and non-fiction type stuff. Fiction and novels don't really interest me.

Favorite Movies :
Wayne's World, Requiem for a Dream, Rain Man, Akira, Anchorman, Office Space, Other Guys, Blue Velvet, Taken, Iron Man, Memento, Ghostbusters, Willow, Alien, Waiting, Snatch, Grandmas Boy, Cabin in the Woods, Natural Born Killers

TV Shows:
TED Talks, Boardwalk Empire, House, Dexter, How it's Made, Lie to Me, In Living Color, Married With Children, Attack of the Killer Tomatoes, Pirates of Dark Water, CSI, Archer, Myth Busters, Frisky Dingo, Firefly, Game of Thrones, Dollhouse season 1, Football (NFL or Collegiate)

Food - almost all of it

Quotes :
"The greatest happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved -- loved for ourselves, or rather, in spite of ourselves." Victor Hugo

"If you can't forgive and forget, how's this? Forget forgivin' and just accept and that's it. See that's how it's gotta be. Then you can fall in love, get on with your life, and be free." Scroobius Pip

"Whether you think you can or you can't; you're right." - Henry Ford
The six things I could never do without
My daughter, Dustin Delylah.
My senses, it trips me out that I've damaged my hearing.
Music, is almost constantly playing around me at very loud volume.
A hot meal made from scratch with lots of love, and spice.
Friends, may be few in number, but not quality
Love, all you need is...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Personal and Social Ethics.
How I can improve my surroundings.
Utopian Concepts.
Global conscious.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home with my daughter, reading stories and playing games. Writing poetry while listening to classical music. Thinking.

On an a-typical Friday; I'm out at Callahan's for a few cold ones with familiar faces. You could say it's my little version of cheers and I play a combination of Cliff, Woody, and Norm depending on my mood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I enjoy being the little spoon.

I could lie to you, but I won't.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Inspiring people to do the things they love brings you joy.
You're an encouraging and positive person.
I can learn important life lessons from you and you would like to teach me.
Tough love is something you can learn from and dish out.
Life makes you happy.
You want to explore kink with me.
You'd like to mentor me.