Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a very open and flexible type of guy who's in an open marriage
While we've been in an ethical non-monogamous relationship for many
years now, it's only been recently that I've decided to become more
active in dating others. As this is a bit new to me and I'm still
fighting my upbringing a bit, I've decided to take this slow. Not
to say I'm not interested in a romantic or sexual relationship, but
I definitely want to get to know people before I go there. I'm just
not a one-night stand kind of guy.
On the other hand, with the right companionship, I could learn to
be that kind of guy...;-)
I am intelligent, mischievous, and open-minded
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently, I'm doing what I can to find another job. I'm working
part-time in a retail environment currently, and I'm hoping to find
something full-time soon. I'm currently taking guitar lessons and
attending writing seminars and groups.
I'm also working on an extortion scheme involving termites and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
As something of an introvert, I tend to do less talking and more
listening. I find that I tend to be very good at being able to step
back and see things from the other person's point-of-view and I
have the self-confidence to not allow their viewpoint to threaten
mine. This particular personality trait allows me to discuss
different taboo subjects like politics and religion and still be
able to have a beer with the person afterward - without the
temptation of pouring it over their head...;-)
As for less cerebral things, I'm a master of charming pets and
small children and often find myself playing the roll of walking
jungle gym for the later.
Sexually, well, you'll have to "discuss" that with me in
The first things people usually notice about me
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I tend to be quiet and easygoing. People sometimes find it hard to
get me because I'm a bit reserved and therefore not an easy read at
first glance. Once people do get to know me they tend to find me
fun-loving, quick to laugh and joke around with folks, thoughtful,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I tend to read mostly sci-fi, fantasy, and historical fiction. I'm
also interested in non-fiction, particularly as it pertains to
history or current events.
Movies tend to be the same, though I do enjoy comedies (more
cerebral and less physical). I'm not a real fan of slasher
As for music, I tend to be a bit eclectic. I tend towards classic
and contemporary rock, blues, folk, and celtic. I'm not a rap,
r&b, or country music fan - particularly classic country. I
can't stand the steel guitar as an instrument, (I get that
fingernails-on-chalkboard reaction every time I hear it).
I'm a big fan of food. I'm willing to try just about anything. I
love ethnic food and love finding new restaurants to eat at.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How things work and what I can do to help influence things in ways
that make sense to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes working, otherwise out to a restaurant, movie, or
Occasionally, it's the night I try to take over the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I consider the quest for spirituality to be a very personal one.
I've lately begun travelling my road through music and
- I hear chicks dig musicians...;-)
You should message me if
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You like talking to someone who's knowledgeable about a lot of
things, nonjudgemental (for the most part), and willing to connect
with you and see you as a person first and foremost.
Disclaimer: Of course as a man I can drool with the best of them,
so if you have the ability to do that to men, I can only promise
that I'll try to engage the big brain before I stare too long at
areas that don't have eyes...;-)
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