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30 Singapore, Singapore Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 8:20am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Used up
Mostly vegetarian
Very often
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Japanese (Okay), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Polyamorous genderqueer. Sex-positive feminist. They didn't have 'Queer' so I had to be 'Bisexual', but I generally prefer that which is feminine.
What I’m doing with my life
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Tofu management. Loving, creating, consciously consuming, empathising, ruminating, unlearning, laughing. I used to help edit an online youth magazine ( I am training for a diploma in culinary arts.
I’m really good at
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Wearing your clothes. Being étrange.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Ink and my heels.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Did you know that Rutger Hauer completely rewrote the Tears in Rain monologue from Blade Runner the night before the shoot? Neither did I. I've just discovered Auster and read The Red Notebook. Now I'm starting to notice all these coincidences in my life and I keep waiting from a phone call from someone claiming to be me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There's a story about how when Budai (the laughing buddha) was asked by a follower what the meaning of Zen was, he simply dropped the sack that contained all his belongings to the ground. When he was asked how to practise Zen, he took up the sack again.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dust motes in a shaft of the afternoon sunlight coming through a friend's window in Singapore in the early 2000s. Reducing consumption and voluntary human extinction. Menus you can't click on. Roko's basilisk.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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How I once dislocated my knee.
You should message me if
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You want to hang out and talk about transcendental food experiences or perhaps you're polyamorous.