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valentined

69 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 5
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Unknown
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Endlessly fascinated by good food and lively conversation...I love to be engaged in topics ranging from history to art, politics to philosophy, practical to the inane. Pretty verbal I'd have to say, but atuned to the unuttered conversations as well...

I love a man who inhabits his life well and freely shares his enthusiasms with others. A tactile man who loves to kiss (am I describing me or him? ideally both...)

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At this point I'm interested in creating and maintaining balance: health, friends, learning languages, keeping up home and garden.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In a crisis I get really calm and focused, but I mainly attempt to avoid drama in my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Aging as gracefully as I can, I swim, work out, and do yoga regularly. Eye-excercises? you bet, but hey I don't have to wear glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies
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"Best of Youth", "Little Children", "51 Birch Street", "Brokeback Mountain" (of course),"Volver", "A Fish called Wanda", "Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown", "Children of Paradise","Woman in the Dunes","Mousetrap" come to mind...


Music
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more specifically favorite performances of favorite music: Liszt Petrarch Songs (Fischer-Dieskau), Kindertotenlieder (Christa Ludwig), Durufle Requiem (Robert Shaw, Kathleen Battle, Atlanta Symphony),
Zarzuelas (Monserrat Caballe)

I'd do "standing" to see a great opera performance more than once; love boite cabaret; seek out concerts by new classical singers.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Farmers markets (odd, but I love 'em), singing and vocal music, quiet time alone, engaging intellectual challenges, contact with good friends...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how I'd fix the world (if they'd let me...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
giving or going to a dinner party; seeing a play, film or concert; having a good connection with a date (which of course I'm searching for)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm surprised to realize I'm as old as I am, but I don't think I'd give up any of my past.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 39–74
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you're interested in: engaging conversation, meeting some of my interesting and talented friends, spending time with someone who enjoys receiving and giving good attention.