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valerie_pal

52 / F / Straight / Single

Sunnyvale, California

Her Details

Last Online
Sep 9, 2009
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a person who is supportive and caring yet analytical and wary... I care but also expect people to be responsible and also caring/supportive... I do not see my role as a woman to make up for what another does not want to do for himself... I believe that a balanced relationship takes into consideration both sides of any relating, fairly and in balance...
Sex is not the basis for any relationship, however, communication and relating IS.
I prefer communicative and educated/caring types who are down to earth, somewhat spiritual but realistic and somewhat scientific, yet with spiritual emphasis and concerns in life, which are realistic, caring and analytical as well, or balanced.
I like persons who don't try to take advantage of others.

I love dancing and to cook and eat healthy vegetarian food with some meat, as well I like ballroom dancing and walks, hikes and bike rides as well as to work out... I also love music... New age, meditiation and classical, some rock, but don't get into the "rock" scene...
I like good books, lectures and activities to go to, as well as good movies.

Real conversations with real people are the most enjoyable, with heart-felt concerns and philosophies exchanged about life and living.

I like people who are caring and honest, nice and analytical as well as well-read and nurturing, non-cynical, non alcoholic, spiritual, and like business discussions as well as creative and philosophical discussions...
Once one gets to know someone, of course...

I like a great sense of humor and joking, when one gets to know someone, and people who are creative but practical about everything in life, in the streams of consciousness, and in global consciousness... which means I also like and prefer justice and fair play, among activities, discussions and human interaction, a sense of family and kindness in every exchange, no matter who the person IS or seems to be, as I am who I seem to be.

I am supportive, caring, and analytical
What I’m doing with my life
I study elements of Psychology and Philosophy, after having studied business, and working hard in the business world has been very intriguing and eye-opening... with a good mind and eye for detail, I find I understand the complexities of a business, running one or in following the complex rhythms of human experience in the mind, diet, emotional interactions and healing worlds practices...

I love mostly healing worlds practices, or those which combine understanding, philosophic understanding, mind and body balance as well as the diet, places of deeper understanding of personality and balance of this too, which seems never done or quite mastered in the complex functions of the world.
I’m really good at
Understanding people, complex structures in society, statistics in application toward these complex concepts and ideas, and helping people with their challenges in life...
I like a varying social element, and complexity, diversity in tandem with integration in a society which values the integration of philosophic ethic, business, healing, virtue and the integration of values in communication which foster the continued growth toward the evolving planet, personalities in it and the endless potentials for positive change, integration, balance and self perfection, within parameters of rest, stress reduction, relaxation, meditation and even hypnosis.
I like real people, real concepts and concepts that work for real people to assist toward wholeness in more a wholistic fashion for total integration concerning mind and body, personality and Philosophy/ethics, in life, with some fun and humor from time to time, as well as compassion in between, which helps people to forgive themselves as well as others...
in a world which is in constant need of cultivation...
I also love gardening and have some friend of the garden in my plants...
The first things people usually notice about me
I am creative and caring, articulate and concerned, earthy, but wholistic, and practical minded, yet reductionist, even though intellectual, humble and fair-minded, while uniquely supportive and troubleshooting by nature, adventurous but practical, brave, razor sharp in reasoning/understanding, (war), yet glib and humorous at times ... at least around those who know me... for I, am also... shy... yet outgoing, rather a bit of an anomally, yet it is true... some say cute but I prefer the term caring and pretty...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Psychology, Philosophy, Ethics, Dietary, Nutrition, Biology, Business, Time magazine and Business Weekly, Text books on such and journals, some medical, however, mostly I don't like to read medical journals, and know much more about preventative studies, which are of greatest interest to me in today's world... Favorite movies would be: those old ones of Star Trek, newer ones like Mission Impossible, and Intellectual themes which range from the Historical, to the Modern, from action dramas, to Jane Austin, for its old world approach to society and social interaction, to more modern scientific movies and even Sci-Fi, (within reason and not the weird)...
I like some musicals, and movies with gardens, for I love Europe and gardens... While the food I crave is organic, gourmet, but organic, vegan and with meat, for I love to cook and do it well... and love those who share the love of it, and good food... which is yet another art of living... even for those on a budget...
The music I like is meditative, deeply reflective, pure, sensitive and caring, suggesting ascent and endurance, deeply spiritual, without making a statement of spiritual, yet I love also classical, and some very light meaningful "rock" tunes with lovel lyrics of meaning, and even some remote Jazz, but mostly VERY MUCH PREFER simply meditative music which is not only relaxing, but inspiring... with some fun music from different eras at times and that which is suitable for dancing, if only in the mind... for I am mentally romantic. Transcendance interest me far more I should say in music and life situations.
The six things I could never do without
1. Another human to discuss life and meaning of life with...

2. Deep felt concern from others and those close I know, and spiritual persons I esteem...

3. Mentors and mentees whom I may cherish...

4. Education which is meaningful and never dull and those to share it with...

5. Good food and those to share it with

6. Time for rest and solitude... Maybe the need to write too...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make the world a better place, avoid those who do not, and to find those who do also make it a better world, as well as improving my home space and the conservation spaces I find in the world... as well, finding friends and groups which satisfy the endless need to share and for curiousity, among others, while being present with gatherings, lectures and interest groups. Educating people, and/or learning about them, their interests and understanding our world systems intrigue me endlessly as well.
On a typical Friday night I am
Musing over ideas and computer emails or papers I examine for content of notes I have taken down on them, to follow my life plan and what is next... or following up with a group meeting or events, or meeting with a friend, hiking or deciding what to do next for the weekend... Updating my calendar or catching up on the week's events and my schedule to wrap it up... sort of...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am very shy and yet very outgoing...
I love meeting new people, but people can scare me in that they fail usually to understand me at first take...
I am highly intellectual and complex, yet can be terribly simple... highly love self and seek those who are intense but understanding too.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You think I could be a friend and if you like things in my profile you feel you would like to share with me, or similar interests, even events you may have in mind that I check out on the web or those you may have in mind at all for me... friends often do...