I'm also one of those guys with more than one home, but not like winter/summer homes, though I guess north of the river in summer might be *slightly* cooler than Olathe. :)
I don't socialize much, unless you get me going. Right now my circle of friends is pretty small, though my circle of friendly acquaintances is huge. I like to think I can empathize with others and as a result make friends with folks from all walks of life.