5,680 online now

The Google of
online dating

— The Boston Globe

Completely free

— TIME

A favorite hangout
for internet goers

— The Village Voice

A perfect example
of the Web 2.0 revolution

— New York Post

Join Us!

Message Her

Join OkCupid

Find better matches with our advanced matching system

An image of vampirefreaks
An image of vampirefreaks
—% Match —% Friend —% Enemy

vampirefreaks

27 / F / straight / Single

Singapore, Singapore

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 4" (1.65m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Malay (Poorly), Hindi (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

Similar Users

  • An image of missgoodfrog

    missgoodfrog, 25 Singapore, Singapore less spiritual

  • An image of Navia17

    Navia17, 31 Singapore, Singapore less kinky

  • An image of icymystic

    icymystic, 20 Singapore, Singapore more introverted

  • An image of miamore4

    miamore4, 45 Singapore, Singapore less sex-driven

  • An image of Aonani_

    Aonani_, 29 Singapore, Singapore less spiritual

  • An image of Lotte321

    Lotte321, 18 Singapore, Singapore less aggressive

  • An image of QueenPookie

    QueenPookie, 26 Singapore, Singapore less sex-driven

  • An image of VelvetVine

    VelvetVine, 31 Singapore, Singapore more compassionate

Your Notes

Edit your notes

I am (C)ryptic, (Y)ummy, and (N)arcissistic.

My Self-Summary

Suffering deepens me, gives a greater luster to my color, a richer resonance to my words. I do not allow it to destroy me, to burn away my optimism and spirit, my capacity for visions, and my respect for simple yet indispensable things.

I am Cyn.

I believe in Love & Happily-Ever-Afters.

I don't need ta smoke, drink, gamble, or f**k around ta have a life. I am beyond that and I have a double standard to live up to. If it bothers you, go stand on a railway track and take a moment.

What I’m doing with my life

Sing. Dance. Paint. Dream. I Create Meaningful Memories. I laugh. I smile. I learn. I hunt. I cling onto arms.

I also:

Give & Forgive. Accept & Encourage. Balance Love with Limits. Weave Dreams into Reality. Reverse the existing orders of things. Ponder Excessively. Relax & Take It Easy. Observe how long I can go without saying something negative about people and situations. Indulge in sensual/sexual pleasures. Avoid indulging in sensual/sexual pleasures. Surround myself with people who take Joy in Living. And, yeah... spend alot of money.

I’m really good at

Being Cyn!

Craving out my preferred experiences, I live a life that is my own - with thrills, joys, and challenges chosen by me, not based on any social template or lifestyle manual, not in accord to someone else's idea of an ideal life. Free from external influences and illusions, I remain honest with myself about my interests and ablities. This is what I enjoy being and this is what I am best at.

I am also great at reassuring minds about everything from monsters hiding under the bed to the pain of being judged in life.

The first things people usually notice about me

I really am odd. When you're with me, it's the only time you're not the strangest person in the room. So go ahead, get weird with me.

I am not out to make myself look good. Rather, I strive to make you see me as I really am. Having you accept me as I am is much more gratifying than having you think of me favorably.

So see me as I see myself at: http://www.friendster.com/castleonthecloud

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I read Calvin and Hobbes, Handwritten Books, Letters, and Cards. I Love Humor, Wisdom Literature, Socialogy, Philosophy, Theology, and Language.

I watch Epics, Musicals, Comedies, Action and Japanese Animation. I love fantasy. Real world is often too plain and ordinary for my liking.

Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Nat King Cole, and Frank Sinatra etc. Bizet's Carmen, Boccherini's Minuet(From String Quartet in E), Faure's Pavane Op 50, Bach's Air On G String, Pachelbel's Canon In D, and Massenet's Meditation(From Thais). I know. I love hearing from the old and dead.

Mangoes, Strawberries, Kiwis, Chocolates, Cookies, Muffins, Ice cream, Tuna, Frozen Yogurt, Muesli, Cereal, Cheese, Broccoli, Celery, Chicken Breast, Soup, Curry, Spices, Chilli, Pepper, and Mushroom. I love Dessert. It's the first section of the menu I check out. Then come the starters and finger food. Main course? Never been a priority.

The six things I could never do without

My VERY VERY VERY Black Eyeliner. Fresh fruity fragrance. My willingness to contribute in the life of another. My people. My Conscience. Lotsa Laughters. And then some.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Images and words that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy.

The possibility of sharing life with a man who shares a similar perspective and personal code of conduct while exploring the system and study of the basic truths and principles of the universe, life, and morals, and of the human understanding of these.

The idea that when people come together, they stay together - I take that with me when I'm going to bed at night, even if I'm going to bed alone.

On a typical Friday night I am

building forts out of pillows and blankets.

Face masques, pajamas, board games, creamy hot cocoa, pillow fights, home movies, pizza, truth or dare, laughters and cuddles - It's slumber party - what do'ya expect? ^_^

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

When I was a little girl, I thought the stars were holes in the floor of heaven where the light shone through.

Also, I have old-world ideas where I think girls should eventually be ladies - Having develop a virtuous character, gentle disposition, good manners, well-groomed appearance and proficiency in Culinary, Communications, Dance, Music, Arts and Crafts. This inevitably becomes the yardstick from which I measure myself against, in addition to my lifelong pursuit of a healthy body and an educated soul.

And yes, Disney screwed me up big-time. But that's ok as long as you continue to adore me and read my journal. ^_^

You should message me if

You have taken into account what you know about me (the points of reference we share) and what you want to achieve(say exactly what you mean). And try to say what you have to say in the best way you can. ;p

And of course, if Sex is among the last few things that's on your mind. Thank you.

Nothing unusual. Just a simple refusal to have my value determined only from my sexual attributes and physical attractiveness ( or lack of ;p ), to the exclusion of my other characteristics, my existence as a living person with emotions and capacity for independent action and decision making. And just so that I may stop receiving sexual advances. :D

Male advances, are, however, very welcomed. ^_^

P.S. Drop me an email instead of IM (I do not entertain random chats and I am not sorry. Darned. I don't respond to many emails either.). ^_^