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40 Pittsburgh, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Who am I?

I can be silly when you need to laugh and serious when the situation calls for it. I don't care for sports much. I'm a bit of an introvert and would prefer to stay in watching a DVD cuddling under the covers than getting all dressed up and going to the clubs (I actually hate loud noisy places). However, I do enjoy an afternoon out to lunch and some shopping.

I think women are more beautiful when they aren't trying to be. I would prefer you without make-up, hair tied back wearing sweat pants and a tee-shirt, because that's the real you...not the you that you choose to show the world.

Ideally you would be strong when I am vulnerable and know that I would be strong would you are feeling vulnerable. I'd take care of you when you're sick, hold you silently when you need a good cry and make you laugh when things get a bit too dark.

I'm the type that doesn't always need to have it my way. I'm the "go with the flow" type of person when deciding something with a significant other (like where to eat or what movie to see) but if you leave it up to me I will make a decision. Of course that doesn't necessarily hold true for the more intimate situations. In those instances I may be a bit hesitant at first (not wanting to be to make unwanted advances) but If it's clear we are on the same page I can be very aggressive and dominant.

I'm a person that enjoys together time as well as alone time and would expect that out of anyone that wished to contact me.

The truth is every relationship is different as the chemistry between any two people is going to be different, but what I said above is about as true as I can be and hopefully gives anyone interested a good idea of who I am.

P.S. I also have "ALL" my teeth. Apparently, judging by several of the women's profiles on this site, there are so many men with missing teeth messaging them that they feel the need to mention it as a requirement on their profiles which I find hilarious.
What I’m doing with my life
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What am I doing with my life? Now that's a difficult question. Like many these days I'm living day by day...just getting by and trying to enjoy what I can out of life. My job is a boring office job but my passion is painting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Painting, drawing and sketching I suppose. I'm also a fair cook, a great listener and an entertaining conversationalist at times.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd guess my shaved head or beard/facial hair. Or if we start taking that I an silly, strange and sarcastic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books-The Harry Potter Books, Anne Rice Vampire Novels, Books about the Impressionists and Expressionists

Movies-Comedies and Sci Fi mostly...a few of my favorites are "Kick-Ass", "Chronicles of Riddick", "Fight Club", "Empire of the Sun", "40 Year Old Virgin", "Interview with a Vampire", "Underworld"

TV-"Game of Thrones", "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia", "Doctor Who", "True Blood", "Entourage", "The Big Bang Theory", "Sons of Anarchy", "The Walking Dead", "Justified" "Parks and Recreation", and Paranormal shows.
(Cancelled Shows) "Deadwood", "Carnivale", Farscape", Better Off Ted", 'Arrested Development", "Lost"

Music-A little off everything. I'm very flexible when it comes to music. (although I am not what you would call a huge music fan)

Food-Seafood, Chinese food,...nothing too spicy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer, car, imiganitaion, television, pepsi (although I'm trying to cut back) and my sketchbook.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, death, what's in between...the before the after, the always. Stuff way too deep than my personality usually shows.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staying in and watching tv while relaxing on my computer. (games, art surfing...whatever)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I live with my mother and help her take care of things around the house ever since my step-father passed away.
You should message me if
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You've outgrown the party/clubbing/bar phase of your life and you're looking for one person that you can confide in, be yourself around and let your hair down with....

Let's face it, you're looking for someone that you can be gassy around, or someone who you feel comfortable enough to be with that doesn't care if you shave your legs. Someone who will hold you tight even if you skip a shower that day. If that's what you're looking for you may have stumbled onto the right profile.

If you're looking for a guy with huge muscles and an expensive car...sorry you're on the wrong profile. He's too busy trying to get into some woman's head (and pants) to prove he's a real man.

If you want some "real" advice...there is one main difference between men and women. Most men think "quantity" and most women think "quality". That's why most men try to sleep with as many women as possible. If you find a man who can see things from a woman's perspective and realize that being with one "quality" woman who will love you even at your most vulnerable is better than sleeping with one hundred women most of which you never even learn their last name....dig deeper and get to know him...he may be the one you're looking for.