Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy

vantage81

33 M Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:46am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, French (Okay)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A New England native and public policy practitioner with hard science envy. Short-term skeptic but long-term optimist. Looks for the humor that lurks beneath everything. Pale. Adventurous enough to zip around Africa on tiny planes and helicopters with military dudes, but equally happy with a book-filled quiet weekend. Good listener.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Preventing violent conflict, one memo at a time. Trying to decide if the next step is going to be a little change or a big change.

Outside of work I'm always looking to learn and try new things. Cooking doesn't come especially naturally to me, but I'm making progress. It's also been a long time since I've taken a good vacation so I've been spending a lot of time brainstorming lately. Your suggestions are welcome!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people, being decisive, listening, intermingling with diverse crowds. Knowing when to be hyper-rational and when to follow my gut. Being present when it counts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Lolita, Tale of Two Cities, Heart of Darkness, Blood Meridian, Darkness at Noon (perhaps I need to lighten up a bit), Liar's Poker.

Movies: Rushmore, Almost Famous, Lost in Translation, Annie Hall, Before Sunset, In The Loop, Fantastic Mr. Fox.

Music: Lately I've been on a 90s hip hop kick - think Nas, Black Star, and Common. Otherwise, I'm all over the map.

Food: Almost everything. Asparagus remains my one nemesis food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've tested this a bit in the last couple of years by living in very spartan places, but I won't cop out completely. My six almost-definitely-need-to-have-things are:

- Exercise
- Sleep
- Self-reflection
- The internet
- Spicy food
- Something to laugh about
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Technology in the developing world, cognitive biases, bourbon. Why frequent flyer programs are so complicated.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't want you to be really into baking.

I was more excited about Before Midnight than the new Arrested Development episodes.

Update: Still haven't seen Before Midnight and haven't watched all the Arrested Development episodes. Guess I wasn't that excited about either!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have both high- and low-brow sensibilities. You can provide inspiration for my next vacation or have a great idea for how to spend a day skipping work in DC.