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  • Ages 35-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Nov 23
White, Other
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Not at all
Judaism and it’s important
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Yiddish (Fluently), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I moved back to my native Boston in 2011 after 20+ years in San Francisco and several years in New York . LA and London . I miss only the theater and my friends in New York and the weather and large gay population in San Francisco. I like going to the opera, musicals, theater and films. My closest relatives and best friend live in Boston . I love vegetarian food and languages , especially Yiddish .
I hitchhiked as far as Greece when I was in college in England On my way back from Greece , I was picked up by a caravan of Roma gypsies and at age 19 saw breast-feeding close-up for the first time . The gypsy queen took good care of me until the Greek police forced me to leave, as the gypsies were being escorted out of the country . I also went to my first nude beach near Ibiza when I was in my '20's ( I took off my bathing suit behind a bush , of course ! )
In addition to my JP synagogue , I meditate in Boston with an LGBT Buddhist group and attend the Arlington St . Unitarian Church most Sundays .In SF I used to go to meditation retreats in the Redwoods with the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and later with another men's group which was similar to the Radical Faeries.. In Boston I have gone to the GAYLA Men's retreat and the Nehrim Jewish Men's retreat. I sang with the SF Gay Men's chorus and the LA Gay men's Chorus. . I sing with the Boston Gay Men's Chorus and Koleinu , a Jewish Chorus . I love British mysteries and watch more TV than go to films . I contra dance and go to community theater in JP and occasional to classical and jazz concerts.

I am considerate , bright , kind , a good listener and am able to draw people out on almost any subject .
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for IBM . I used to be a teacher and loved most teaching English to foreign adults . I enjoy going to theatre and opera and from the photos you can see that I was with a Gilbert and Sullivan company in SF for 13 years . I call my friends and relatives to check in often , try to remember everyone's birthday , avoid exercising but train weekly with a trainer . I love plants and gardening and want to get back into cooking and as soon as I retire start learning more languages .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Acting , teaching English as a second language , finding something to talk about with anyone and making people feel at home with me .
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My white beard , hazel eyes and resemblance to somebody or other famous.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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As a child I read fantasy : the Narnia books, Edward Eager , E. Nesbit etc. In high school I read Victorian novels especially Dickens and Austen . More recently have like David Sedaris, Austen Burroughs, Ethan Mordden and most witty gay writers , gay mysteries and British mysteries . Other than that , I have time only to catch up on some of the journals I have. As for films , I prefer romantic comedies , costume dramas and French spy thrillers as well as anything gay or British . . My favorite movies are : "Europa, Europa" , "Kind Hearts & Coronets", "Enchanted April", "Pride and Prejudice " and " Big Eden " . Since moving to Boston , I have attended more concerts and theater than films . I don't listen to much popular music , but am willing to learn . I like opera , Broadway, folk music , classical music , Klezmer, African American gospel music and R&B , Motown and funk to dance to . I have begun to listen to country also . I find some jazz easy to listen to and could get into it - just as I might get into Wagner one day . I am a vegetarian and eat a lot of Asian food. I love noodles am trying to control my chocoholism .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, books, sunny days , flowers , charming people, chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to memorize all the music for the Boston Gay Men's Chorus concert ; what I would do if I won the lottery or when I retire; now that I have let my hair go grey , do I look as hot as Anderson Cooper or more like Gabby Hayes ; do I want a partner who is Jewish and likes opera or do I want someone who is totally different from me but is mad for my body ?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either watching British mysteries on the telly or in shul praying for Hercule Poirot and Miss Marple.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am used to having conversations with people while sitting on the "throne ."
You should message me if
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You understand all my references or would like to ; you are a young Adonis or if neither young nor an Adonis , you make up for it in other ways ; you are musical , theatrical, spiritual or wish you were !