Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I tend to talk too much or way too little and I'm pretty quiet and
polite until drunk or in love. I'm sweet and sour, mostly sweet,
but that's part of my charm (or at least I like to think so). I
believe myself to be cultured enough and I like people who will
teach me something new and excite me. I can be somewhat naïve, a
sweet mouth and blinking eyes can get me almost anywhere, but don't
get any ideas. I strongly feel that I still have too much to learn
and to experience, and struggle with inflexibility and straight
paths. I can be overtly emotional or way too practical at times, I
tend to guide myself by my survival instinct and can't seem to
avoid being somewhat on the edge all the time, in one way or
another. I'm not very confrontational and I am insecure and not
always congruent. Still I know I am a very interesting person and
that's exactly who I want to be.
*** my ideal guy ***
a guy whom I can travel with, have a dog, a summer house.
who likes brazilian music, walking around naked, the beach
who's kinky, versatile, who reads
a guy who is ashamed of a third of his browsing history (yet),
proud of the rest
who likes furniture from the 50s, 60s and 70s, who's thrifty, likes
must be political and on the left and love sex
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reading writing and breathing, in that order
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
thinking too much. and kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
just kidding. I'm quiet and friendly. I enjoy when others start the
conversation but am always glad to keep it going
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm obsessive with books in every form for any purpose. they're my
leisure and my work, hopefully my life.
I've been reading some russian and american classics and some queer
literature. I love the Spanish movida and almodóvar movies. I have
a fascination with the Mediterranean and its history, food and
languages and last but not least, its guys. I've been wanting to
learn arabic for some time now. I'm very easy to please when it
comes to music and I tend not to be much of a snob about it. I
listen mostly to electro in its several forms, some indie and
classical rock and pop divas ftw. Also enjoy jazzy folky tunes,
including flamenco and bossa nova, and have a soft spot for the
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a book, a pen/pencil, a Swiss knife, a penis, self pity, my eyes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the whimsical proprieties of the world; the interpretation and
re-interpretation, critical analysis, eagle-eye to and of the
society and its people; me and me and me; some naughty stuff; how
to, what to, when to, how not to, what not to, when not to; when
did, when did not. question marks are my life.
update in 2012: I can be really lame.
and I don't usually use words like "whimsical"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
there's no typical friday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am always naked
as much as possible.
2012: still true. and I'm learning to knit.
You should message me if
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if you're open minded, about sex and relationships.
if you're interesting, passionate or kind, better if all of the
if you wouldn't mind letting things be.
if you thrive on new experiences and knowledge.
if your ideal relationship is one of openness, honesty and
self-discovery. unless you don't want a relationship (in which case
feel free to message me anyway)
keep away from me:
if you don't feel there's a reason for feminism,
if you have internalized homophobia or don't, at least, acknowledge
if you can't distinguish between human and animal life
if you're too strict in your opinions and stop listening when
people don't agree with you.
if you lack sexual drive.
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