Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am g to take this slow. Questing and questioning. The eternal
student. In-sane(in the best sense of the world)! Not afraid to be
different. Unconventional spirituality. Multi-layered personality.
Honest to a fault. Always wishing to discover new and exciting
things. Contraries... I love (I refuse to underline or bracket)
rough hewn works of art and poetry, handwritten letters ,unedited!
pencil smudges, ink stains and tear smears! Handmade pottery. Any
creation that someone takes the energy to create. It does not
necessarily mean they took time but time "took them", in the sense
there was a cumulative effect in the making. Or not and is just Raw
and Real! I'm not real hip on gadgets such as ipods, cell phones
etc these new gizmos like the computer. Maybe because my dad always
had to have the latest electronic device and I felt he could have
spent the money on us kids. On the other hand I was using his
calculator when the kids in my class had slide rules. Huh? I KNOW
-I AM old! I love libraries and the old card catalogues that used
to be in them or just walking through stacks loading my arms up
with books. I love plants and gardens and wild flowers and nature
that is not a tourist attraction. I like walking without going
anywhere but here.
I will love you of that I am sure. Love is in my nature.
I dislike people who pretend to be something they are not; lies
told with the intention to harm or as a sick game to prey upon
peoples emotions; judge mental people who have no idea who I am and
cast me or others away before even seeing. I dislike ISMs..
I am introspective, and creative
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What I’m doing with my life
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Living it as best as I can ! . Writing , reading, being. Seeking
(it is more the journey than the final destination) and ??????????
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Knowing what I want but not knowing how to get it.
Sometimes knowing how to get it and enjoying IT! Living what I
believe in but always questioning those beliefs. Once upon a times
which are really nows in continuum thread circle theory...(or some
tribal and mythical beliefs). My own art forms that are seemingly
formless at times but which may lead to who knows what
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My world full of wonder eyes. My smile. That I "think" too much (as
opposed to what not thinking at all)? Sorry to the people who "get
it" (not to imply "it" is an object) but I need to have some form
of clarity here...? I use lots of runon sentences and bad
PUNctuation but I am generally an intelligent person. I am
different. I have had a difficult life but have survived it and am
kind, loving and giving.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't have favorites, however I like the unusual ,the surreal and
the naked truth in my taste of books,movies and music. I like
distopian and utopian , Sci -Fi , myths and creation stories,
anything to do with mind or emotion,dreaming or being. I will read
most anything but find most popular fiction extremly trite. I am
currently reading The Anti American Manifesto. I am also reading
what I just picked off the shelf at the thrift store and my own
book....A Side EFFECT OF the Medication or MultipliCities.
I have I don't watch movies often. I like non mainstream and
foreign films, some sci-fi very little horror (except old monster
movies). I do like old black and white and film noir because the
light and shadow are beautiful not to mention scenery and plot. I
am not really a special effects kind of person, though they can be
cool looking. I like movies that have plots! I dislike (mort)(
action slam bam movies. As for t.v. take it or leave it except for
P.B.S. Examples of shows I love StarTrek, Coppers, Murdoch
Mysteries and The Big Bang Theory. It's not the size of the t.v.
that matters ;) I would rather read unless I was too tired! That is
the sorry advantage of "the idiot box" you can just stare at it
without much motivation on your part! I love books made of paper,
albums over C.D.S !
I like most music except some types of rap. As for food I donot eat
meat . No fish or chicken or anything bloody ! Want to go vegan
again... You can eat whatever you want but if you are with me
please don't try to force me ! I'm tired of trying to explain the
whoile philosophy of it. I don't judge you please don't judge
Ahhhhhhhh the discovery of Babylon 5 ! Lots of other discoveries
like THE BIG Lebowski and a return to the classics both books music
and movies but a refound love for the cutting edge of now!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of humor, children, nature , my hidden side, dreams, quiet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
QUESTions?????? WHY am I here instead of There? Why I push myself
into running so far that I can't run at all. Just Where am I ? What
is my purpose? Why I can never sleep. Composing poetry and not
writing it down. Creating art out of emptiness. The life of animals
and how much they mean to me. Birds singing, elephants crying,
small insects that people swat without realizing they are living
beings. How everything is made up of energy ... LETTING
GO.............. Finding something worthwhile to hold onto.
Creating a new family with friends. Knowing I have more courage
than I ever thought! Laughing and Living more fully. That my
tragedy is a comedy if I reverse it and I'm not dead yet! Never
under estimate me! I am full of surprises. I am funny. I want to be
an actress and think I'd be damn good at it even if I'm old so
DISCOVER me . Letting my insides OUT!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
. WOW! I never knew that time was so timeless. Looking for those
stars that are not only wishable but dreams come true. Making light
in the darkness.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am most likely different than any other person you have met. I am
loving and caring but I am learning I DESERVE the same in return.
That you have not lived my life so please DO NOT JUDGE ME!
That I've misjudged myself far too often and it's time for me to
shine again . That the talents that were stolen are only dormant!
Watch out when I awaken. I breathe elements!
I dream realities! That my body is the vehicle for this world and
I'm still learning how to drive it! . That sharpnesss and fire can
be played with but if it's out of control then learn discipline and
patience ! That I LOVE. Pure and , simple and complex a conundrum
that puzzles me yet but don't we all have a few missing pieces and
isn't it more fun NOT knowing it all!
You should message me if
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You know how to respect women and other living beings.
I do have a sense of humour however so don't be afraid. I bite only
when I know you enough and if you want me to! I'm not looking for
someone who wants to "cheat " on their mate! I know and have
experienced loving more than one person at once! This does not mean
I am a "slut" unless I choose to reclaim the word! If you IM me and
find you don't like me please be decent enough to say goodbye so I
don't wonder if you got cut off and bother you again. Please do not
send me the same form letter you send every other woman on here, it
If you are not too arrogant to know everyone has something to teach
and learn! Know that love can be among more than one person. I do
not understand WHY it is "Ok" for some men to be with more than one
women and call it dating and yet when I bring up open relationships
they freak! I have at times been monogamous but now want a primary
partner. I am willing to explore. I NEED honesty! I NEVER want to
be cheated on again! COMMUNICATION and patience and RESPECT can go
far in solving problems!!!! Ach! What is it about married men who
judge MY choices then want to cheat on their wives behind their
backs and mine but then say I am the one who does not understand!
Arrgh! How is it that grown, educated men still think withdrawal is
a birth control method? It is the responsibility of Both parties to
take control of birth control. NO, I am NOT menopausal! Don't
ASSUME anything about me! Many people do and usually the
assumptions are incorrect! If you understand how lucky you are and
about class consciousness and being authentic and REAL...If you
know how to dream with your eyes open :) Ok...this is long but
humour me...pleas please?!
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