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42 Costa Mesa, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:21pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I'm originally from Chicago and love that city, but my sister and nephews drew me back to OC after 8 years being gone, so here I am again! My loves are volleyball and my two pups, a Puggle and Jack Russell mix. I really enjoy getting together with friends to do just about anything, play board games, and experience anything that gets the heart racing! I've been known to toss a witty, lighthearted remark into a conversation before it turns too serious, and I’m down to earth, good-natured, and sociable. I try to make people feel happy and good about themselves with my attempts at humor... I just wish I didn’t have to take my foot out of my mouth so often!

I’m self-sufficient, but also appreciate chivalry and the traditional roles in a relationship. I’m looking for a man of substance, character, and confidence. One who knows how to treat a woman with kindness and care, and will show his chivalry and compassion. Would like to meet a "man’s man" who knows how to succeed in life, knows what he wants and will go for it when he finds it. He'll know how to be kind toward others and will strive to make others feel comfortable in his presence. He'll want to make my days better by making me laugh and will be silly with me so that not everything is taken so seriously. A guy who likes to watch and play sports is key, since I'm a sports lover. A man who has a zest for life and a yearning to travel is my kind of man. And he'll be handsome in my eyes, and financially and emotionally stable.
What I’m doing with my life
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When I'm not helping companies create a healthier bunch of employees, I'm trying to get my puppies to realize I'm in charge... they look at me like I'm crazy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not sweating the small stuff. Being ME. Planning events and finding fun things to do. Cooking. Being active and healthy. Taking care of myself and giving to others. Staying on top of world events and actually having my own opinion. Being a really cool aunt to my three nephews.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile because I'm generally in a good mood - who couldn't with puppies at home who make me crack up all the time?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Into James Patterson, Michael Connelly, and John Grisham books; all kinds of movies, except period pieces (I mean how many of those can Kiera Knightly be in anyway?); the only type of music I don't like is hard core rap; and I'm just not into Thai or Indian food, but all else is 'on the table' (ha, ha, pun intended!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Jeans, my two dogs, my family, having a sense of wanderlust, and my Smartphone because it holds my life together!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get the most done in the most efficient way possible... yeah, I'm a freak like that. Don't hold it against me :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chillin' on the couch with my pups catching up on my DVR'd shows from the week... who's with me? Come on, you know your brain is fried on Friday nights too! And besides, do we really HAVE to have plans both nights of the weekend?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Guess you'll have to ask me in person if it's really that important for you to find out :)
You should message me if
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You like my sense of humor, think I'm pretty good to look at, and ONLY if you're serious about meeting and dating someone.