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42 Costa Mesa, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:52am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm originally from Chicago and would love to meet someone who shares my Midwest values and interests! I'm on this site for the same reasons as most - I'm just busy with work and enjoying life in general, and when I do go out, I'm typically focused on who I'm with, not scoping out the room looking for who to meet. Plus, I know a ton of couples who have met online.

With this being said, I'm going to be forthright about what I'm looking for and who I am:

A man who is also looking for a real, honest relationship.
A man who is successful in his own right.
A man who is secure enough in himself to handle my self-confidence.
A man who will treat me with respect, kindness and compassion.
A man who enjoys the company of others and treats others with respect and dignity
A fun-loving partner who can handle a competitive game of cards or a board game.
A man of substance, character, and confidence.
A man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to go for it.
Someone who takes care of himself, but doesn't go overboard with it.
A man who has a zest for life and a yearning to travel.
And he'll be handsome in my eyes, and financially and emotionally stable.

A lover of dogs (I have 2).
A terrible flirt.
A pretty good cook.
Fairly athletic (love volleyball, working out and adventure races).
Successful enough to not have to rely on anyone to support me, although I do appreciate well-intended chivalry.
I love adventure - anything that gets the heart pumping or mind racing.
I tell it like it is - honesty is the best policy as far as I'm concerned.
Down to earth, good-natured, and sociable.

And finally...
I do look and act younger than my age and I've been told I look better in person (which I don't deny). I'm not looking to have kids of my own, but am completely open to you having kids.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
When I'm not helping companies create a healthier bunch of employees, I'm trying to get my puppies to realize I'm in charge... they look at me like I'm crazy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not sweating the small stuff. Being ME. Planning events and finding fun things to do. Cooking. Being active and healthy. Taking care of myself and giving to others. Staying on top of world events and actually having my own opinion. Being a really cool aunt to my three nephews.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile because I'm generally in a good mood - who couldn't with puppies at home who make me crack up all the time?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Into James Patterson, Michael Connelly, and John Grisham books; all kinds of movies, except period pieces (I mean how many of those can Kiera Knightly be in anyway?); the only type of music I don't like is hard core rap; and I'm just not into Thai or Indian food, but all else is 'on the table' (ha, ha, pun intended!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Jeans, my two dogs, my family, having a sense of wanderlust, and my Smartphone because it holds my life together!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get the most done in the most efficient way possible... yeah, I'm a freak like that. Don't hold it against me :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chillin' on the couch with my pups catching up on my DVR'd shows from the week... who's with me? Come on, you know your brain is fried on Friday nights too! And besides, do we really HAVE to have plans both nights of the weekend?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Guess you'll have to ask me in person if it's really that important for you to find out :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like my sense of humor, think I'm pretty good to look at, and ONLY if you're serious about meeting and dating someone.

But please, don't send me a one word email or "hello" - if you're interested, take the time to point out what it is about me that you want to know more about and why I should be interested in responding to you.