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42 • Costa Mesa, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 2:28pm
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Rather not say
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs
With this being said, I'm going to be forthright about what I'm looking for and who I am:
A man who is also looking for a real, honest relationship.
A man who is successful in his own right.
A man who is secure enough in himself to handle my self-confidence.
A man who will treat me with respect, kindness and compassion.
A man who enjoys the company of others and treats others with respect and dignity
A fun-loving partner who can handle a competitive game of cards or a board game.
A man of substance, character, and confidence.
A man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to go for it.
Someone who takes care of himself, but doesn't go overboard with it.
A man who has a zest for life and a yearning to travel.
And he'll be handsome in my eyes, and financially and emotionally stable.
WHO I AM:
A lover of dogs (I have 2).
A terrible flirt.
A pretty good cook.
Fairly athletic (love volleyball, working out and adventure races).
Successful enough to not have to rely on anyone to support me, although I do appreciate well-intended chivalry.
I love adventure - anything that gets the heart pumping or mind racing.
I tell it like it is - honesty is the best policy as far as I'm concerned.
Down to earth, good-natured, and sociable.
I do look and act younger than my age and I've been told I look better in person (which I don't deny). I'm not looking to have kids of my own, but am completely open to you having kids.
But please, don't send me a one word email or "hello" - if you're interested, take the time to point out what it is about me that you want to know more about and why I should be interested in responding to you.
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