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43 F Seattle, WA

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5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Thank you for visiting!

I'm much better in person than in a random self-summary paragraph. I'm funny (at least in my own head), and smart. I relish good conversations and interesting adventures. There's much much more.... but you'll have to meet me to experience it all.

"I think dating, at least at first, is about finding someone that is fun to be around and engaging and happy. OK, thoughtful and interesting too. Ideally someone that can challenge you and make you think and whom you can respect and admire while also helping you feel really relaxed and accepted and at ease. Adventurous, energetic and outgoing is good. Someone unafraid of being stupid and hilarious and ridiculous can be awesome. And someone you think is hot. I don’t really have a checklist or formula, but some combination of the above, I think is good."

Yes, I like being out in the woods as well as going to the brand new restaurant in town. In the summer, kayaking and bike riding are my go tos. This summer, I'm going to try paddle boarding as well. I go to the theatre and to see live music regularly. If I haven't tried something, I will try it twice (just in case the first time was a fluke ;-p).

There's lots of layers to me. Let's meet and see if we have any connection!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am having fun, laughing as often as possible, occasionally getting annoyed, learning about different things, and solving problems.

I'm a big observer of people and situations. I love learning new things and figuring out better ways to be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
bunches and bunches of things... or nothing at all - depending on my mood and what we're talking about.

I strive to keep learning. I have the ability to keep lots of little bits of information about lots of different things in my rather crowded brain, which makes me pretty good at trivia.

I'm also a very good planner!
The first things people usually notice about me
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you'll have to tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: i read and I read and when i get tired, I read some more. I'll read most anything. Let's talk about our favorite books!

Movies: I just love movies. Love them! I'll watch anything that doesn't have Ben Stiller in it (I think Adam Sandler might now be on the do not watch list as well). My secret (oops) weakness is the Resident Evil movies! Generally i really love movies made by people who really love movies. The most obvious examples are Christopher Nolan, Werner Herzog, Guillermo del Toro and Danny Boyle, but there are loads more.

Music: yes, there is music I don't listen to, but i can find someone or group in every single genre of music that do i like. A friend recently said, "music sounds like feelings feel" and that is very true for me. My music reflects my mood, my surroundings and my intentions.

Food: I love a great meal! Mexican and Italian are my favorites. I do try foods i don't like every couple years and/or in different ways. I will skip the 'just okay' cafe to wait for the 'amazing food' cafe no matter how long the line.

Drink: I'm a wine and bourbon girl (no, not together!). I really love trying different wines as well as drinking the wines I know I love. Bourbon is my drink of choice on most outings. I love how unique every bourbon is. Naturally, it reminds me of some of the joys of wine.

Other: I'm a huge sports fan. Not crazy paint my face, decorate my house in team colors and refuse to do anything during game times, but i can TALK about football, soccer, cycling, and hockey. I can fake my way through a conversation about other sports as well. I am always happy when i meet fellow fans, but don't need everyone around me to be fans or even like sports. There is a book, movie and tv series about my high school sports team, i really had no choice but to go down the sports fan road. ;-p
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
six! limiting me to six?!?!? how about a rotating 6.... a different group every day:=) i can always come up with six things i can't do without!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the moment; the next trip; the 'stuff of life' (yeah not deep stuff more like laundry stuff); where i'm going (that's the deep stuff); and what to cook next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends, getting ready for the rest of the weekend, crashing on the couch or doing other typical things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't like balloons.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you want to;
you're looking for a great catch;
you want great conversation;
you like geeking out on scifi, fantasy, pop culture, music, sports, etc.;
something in all this appeals to you.

I do send messages, and would love a reply (even if it's 'thanks but no thanks') and I will reply to your message so send one if you're interested in meeting!

If you're taller than me (when I'm in low heels), have something you DO (job, hobby, or training for the floss weaving nationals), can communicate basic information ("My name is ____"), and want to meet in person (I'm not on a dating site for pen pals), I'm IN!!

Bonus points if you have/like tattoos, love to have conversations about deep stuff and fluffy stuff, read books, listen to (and like to go see) music, are up for both spontaneous and planned adventures, and are willing to try new things and to keep repeating the good ole oldies!