I really need to update this.... Just saying...

I'm a silly guy. I am very much attracted to nerds and geeks. I am very unattracted to mean spirited or bitchy people.

I'm vegan, but I promise not to yell at you or throw red paint around. Unless your into that sorta thing. ;-) Have been vegan for 6 years now. One of my favorite things to do is cook vegan food.

I'm atheist.

Enjoy chill nights at home but get the urge to go out some. I am definitely a home body. I am also rather busy, so drunken nights every night is really not an option. Bars also gets boring. I would prefer to go on an adventure than to go out to bars all weekend. That being said, wanna go grab a beer?

I am not easily shocked. I tend to have a foul mouth. "Never fear being vulgar, only boring"

I am looking for relationships, dates, sex, adventures, someone to chill out an watch a movie with, bar mates, and travel partners.

I am polyamorous. If you are unsure of what that means, ask me! :)

I smoke pot on occasion. I drink often. Other than that I very rarely do anything else.

living it happily.

I am very content and happy being me in my life. I also try to challenge myself. Learning is an important part of life for me.

My career path involves finding things that interest me and that I have never experienced before. (hence managing a sex store). I often say I am serial careerist.

Creative answers. Being silly. Visual/spatial awareness. I am a pretty decent cook. I am a hard worker because I enjoy working. The act of labor is satisfying to me.

Patience. I have been told I am very patient.

My goofiness?

The natural way light reflects off my hair as well as my stunning charm and wit... right?

"From this distant vantage point, the Earth might not seem of any particular interest. But for us, it's different. Consider again that dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every "superstar," every "supreme leader," every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there – on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam." -Carl Sagan
(I know - everyone quotes it)

Books: Siddartha, my Psych text books, gender theory, Unbearable Lightness of Being, The Trouble With Normal, Michael Cunningham, Kurt Vonnegut, John Irving, David Sedaris, The Monster at the End of This Book... will add more later

Music i am recently listening to: Always find myself craving The Smiths during the spring. My heart will always be with the blues however. Muse, Radiohead, Boyz Noize, Antony and the Johnsons, Modest Mouse, Avett Brothers, Peaches, Iggy, Ziggy, Classic rock, Bessie Smith, Dinah Washington, Etta James, Sarah Vaughn, Bob Marley, Bob Dylan, Cut Chemists, T Rex, Queen, The Doors, Ella, Zerodb, Tricky, Major Lazer... more to come

Food: Hummus and falafel, Spaghetti, Veggies from my CSA, thai food, pho, indian food.

Radiolab!!!! NPR.

Documentaries, Sci-Fi, Old Martial Arts flicks

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QHboMLW-Zn0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyMd19sE6U4

singing in the shower
being naked outdoors
my passport
dinner with friends
movie in bed
adventures big and small

Where I left my keys. What my dog would sound like if he had a voice. Sex. What I would do if I had an entire day when NYC were mine all to myself. How to start my own commune in Costa Rica. Sex. What it will take to build an earth-bag house on my land in Maine. Where I left the dog's collar. Sex. Other people naked. I think about sex a lot too.

Hanging out with my dog. Drinking a beer on my roof deck. Going to listen to a Summerfest concert.

On occasion I will go out and grab a drink somewhere. East Village dive bars (where you can hear each other talk).

really not sure what to put here. I don't keep much private.

Something people usually wish I'd keep private?
I like the natural smell of a guy's armpit. I can tell instantly if I am attracted to him or not by the way a guy smells. I detest deodorant. We have been taught that our bodies are disgusting and smelly. Unhealthy bodies smell unhealthy. "You are what you eat" You smell like what you consume.

You meet one or more of the following:
You are Vegan/veggie.
You are silly/funny.
You are willing to dream and to take adventures.
You understand what polyamory means.
You are liberal.
You are atheist.
You will run naked through the woods in the rain.
You like documentaries.
You are into trying new things in bed.
You like camping.
You go to museums.
You understand that gender is constructed.
You are willing to go to a nude beach.
You are a kind person.