Anyway, let's see... I've always been a bit more mature than my age says I should be... so I get told anyway, who really knows... ellipses... Still feeling young without all the psychosis that goes with being immaturely young, you know? I've never had any interest in drugs, I'm not a partier though I will have fun, while avoiding super-noisy places like nightclubs to keep my hearing. I "drink socially" basically. I've always had a hell of an interest in psychology, which I'll get into a little more later. I can be unpredictable and random. I also have a pretty unique personality, go to the beat of my own drum and all that. General picture, I know, so do please continue.

While it's not my profession, I am a hobbyist hypnotist, and thus very interested in hypnosis, as unusual as that might sound. I love anime, a bit of a gamer though only above average at gaming... I've always found it difficult to attempt to answer questions before knowing what they'll be in a bio like this, so ask what you want to know.

Let's see, I'm confident but not cocky, can be funny and serious at the same time, I'm cynical but I tend to be able to portray that without making people feel like there's no point to life, I have a slightly more dominant personality even though I enjoy giving to someone I like, and I love to relax but hate having nothing to do.

I am confident, entertaining, and enchanting

I'm a professional software engineer, and have a major interest in hypnosis. Hypnosis may eventually be a career for me some day, but not currently. It will be a passion of mine for a long time to come regardless. I tend to keep hypnosis sessions with people I've gotten to know enough that they feel safe with me and I feel it is good for them, or at least really fun. Feel free to ask about what could be done and the like, I like getting people thinking about it before they ask me random questions.

I mentioned the professional software engineering job, and when I'm not working, I'm relaxing when I can and having fun when I can. Been trying to get back into shape. Sure, I'm a good weight, but being in shape doesn't only mean being at a decent weight.

Software engineering, hypnosis, videogames, divulging random trivia on various interests, basic psychology, going on random tangents, having those conversations where you go "Ok, we were talking about A.... and we're now at D... and it all went fluidly... how'd that happen?" Once had a conversation that started about eating steak that ended in talking about handcuffs, and every transition from start to end just made perfect sense, it's now a running joke with that friend.

Oh yea, and also good at being a smartass geek and/or nerd.

My eyes, my laugh, or my being a smartass.

Books: the Myst series, Sherlock Holmes stories, some books on hypnosis. I take my time when I read, I'm not the type to blow through multiple decent-length books in a week.

Movies: Dogma, Clerks I/II (Kevin Smith movies in general), Spaceballs and a good number of Mel Brooks movies, most "non-idiotic" comedy, and anime (for TV and movies).
Sidenote: If you love Jackass and don't really get a movie like Dogma (there's something to "get"?), we probably will NOT get along well.

Music: anything except rap or hip hop, though I have a preference toward jazz and classical, mainly instrumental music. I mention classical, but not big on opera. Anyway, I know lines of songs, I rarely remember song names unless famous, and I never remember song performers, so just because a song is famous doesn't mean I'll have a chance of knowing who performed it. I'm always shocked when someone doesn't know really well known older songs, i.e. (Don't Fear) The Reaper ("I need more cowbell") or Bohemian Rhapsody. Yes, very different songs, just giving examples. I don't expect people to memorize lines, I expect people to recognize the melody or something, though lol. I'm somewhat entertained when a 50 year old guy will hear me sing something fairly unknown these days like "16 Tons" (YouTube it, good song) and be like "Someone as young as you knows that song?!" :P
It's also cool when I can reference lines from "They're Coming to Take Me Away, Ha Ha!" and not be looked at like I'm truly nutty by at least one person lol.

Shows: various anime, such as Fullmetal Alchemist (and FMA: Brotherhood), Baccano (possibly best dub job to date), and Yu Yu Hakusho (believe me, I can go on). What about stuff that's not anime, you ask? Witty drama shows more than most others, like House, White Collar, and Psych (is Psych drama? Yea, I suppose...)

Food: steak, pizza rolls, ravioli, ice cream (I tend to want it more in the winter than in the summer... is that wierd?), and especially sushi and sashimi. LOVE that stuff.

Not completely on the same topic, but also love checking out videos at ThatGuyWithTheGlasses.com (not all, but quite a few) when I got time. Some gems there, take a look around at some point, thank me later.

Food, water, air, anime, internet, and friends. Not necessarily in that order. Money has to come in after those, because, well, let's admit it, a certain level is needed in this world.

Psychology of other people, "why," "why" of that first why, "why" of that second why... you get the picture.

When I check OkCupid, I often think a lot about why OkCupid thinks someone that their own metrics say "No WAY! You would not work at all!" is a match for me. You know, like 20% match, 15% friend, and 50% enemy. Why's that show up in my matches?

Either out at a bar for a couple drinks, home watching TV, playing some videogames, or chatting away with a good friend or two.

When laundry day is coming up, I'll wear *some* dirty clothes a second day in a row (but never underpants... ugh)

-you're not expecting a long term relationship from me, as I am currently with someone who I am 100% honest with. Do not expect "I can steal him away from her," either.
-you're open minded
-u do nt typ in txt abrev all times. Probably took me an extra half a minute total to think up those abbreviations, and rereading at a later date made me wonder what I had tried to write, how does that help *anyone*?
-you have a broad sense of humor, and this includes dirty jokes, but clean ones as well.
-you can deal with me babbling about a random topic and/or going off on a tangent.
-you're not brainwashed by religion, politics, or any mix of the two Having an opinion is perfectly fine, having a belief is perfectly fine. I can have political and religious discussions, we may disagree, but I will not talk to someone who will seriously call me a "blasphemer/heathen" or a "traitor" for thinking for myself. This comes with the "open minded" thing above.
-you're an independent woman who understands that clinginess is not attractive in anyone.
-For those that notice "casual sex" listed in "I'm looking for," those that can understand the difference between a "fuck buddy" and a "friend with benefits" (note: the first word makes a large difference)
-For those who only want something serious, that the listing of "casual sex" does not mean I can't also be interested in something serious. It just means ya have to be straight forward from the start as to what it is you're "aiming for"