I am confident, entertaining, and enchanting.
My Self-Summary
I'm already referring my time in college as "back when I was in
college"... and only been out for a couple years, love it, eh?
Anyway, I've always been a bit more
mature than my age says I should be... so
I get told anyway, who really knows... all while personally not
feeling older than I should. Still feeling young without all the
psychosis that goes with being immaturely young. I've never had any
interest in drugs, I'm not a partier though I will have fun (as
long as I'm not at a rave or a deafening night club), I can be
unpredictable and random, and every couple weeks I'll go out for a
few drinks (and a few means literally a few or less, NOT "Let's
down a 'few' drinks!"). I also have a pretty unique personality, go
to the beat of my own drum and all that. General picture, I know,
so do please continue.
Anyway, while it's not my profession, I am a
hobbyist hypnotist, and
thus very interested in
hypnosis, as unusual as that might
sound. I'm interested in other things, love
anime, a bit of a gamer though only above
average, not amazing or anything, been working out and remembering
how much it hurts to get *started* again... yea... I've always
found it difficult to attempt to answer questions before knowing
what they'll be in a bio like this. Let's see, I'm
confident but not cocky, can be
funny and
serious at the same time,
I'm
cynical but I
tend to be able to portray that without making people feel like
there's no point (like some cynics that I know), I have a slightly
more
dominant
personality even though I enjoy
giving to someone I like, and I love to
relax but hate
having nothing to do. Anyway, tell ya what, you got a question,
I'll answer it (but only on the condition that if you are capable
of answering the question, you'll do so, too)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a professional
software engineer, and have a
major interest in
hypnosis. While hypnosis will never be
my career choice (hobbies always tend to be more fun than careers,
even if it's something you enjoy... that and I don't wanna be a
therapist, and I freeze in front of large crowds), it will be a
passion of mine for a long time to come. I do intend to look into
being a certified hypnotist some day (when I can make time for
doing so, really). I tend to keep hypnosis sessions with people
I've gotten to know enough that they feel safe with me and I feel
it is good for them, or at least really fun. I enjoy other stuff
about hypnosis, but you don't get to learn any more unless you get
to know *me*. Feel free to ask me anything about it.
Besides that, I'm just
relaxing when I can,
having fun when I can, and all
that good stuff. Been trying to get back into shape. Sure, I'm a
good weight, but being in shape doesn't only mean being at a decent
weight.
I’m really good at
Software
engineering,
hypnosis,
videogames, divulging random anime
trivia, basic psychology... being a
smartass geek lol
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my laugh, or my being a smartass... and in some occasions,
my ass. It is a fact that I am a nice ass, and you can take that
however ya want.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: the Myst series, Sherlock Holmes stories, some books on
hypnosis. Actually re-reading the Myst series now. I take my time
when I read, I'm not the type to blow through multiple
decent-length books in a week.
Movies: Dogma, Clerks I/II (Kevin Smith movies in general),
Spaceballs and a good number of Mel Brooks movies, most
"non-idiotic" comedy, and anime (for TV and movies).
Sidenote: If you love Jackass and don't really get a movie like
Dogma (there's something to "get"?), we probably won't get along
well.
Music: anything except rap or hip hop, though I have a preference
toward jazz and classical, mainly instrumental music. I know lines
of songs, I rarely remember song names unless famous, and I never
remember song performers, so just because a song is famous doesn't
mean I'll have a chance of knowing who performed it. I'm always
shocked when someone doesn't know really well known older songs,
i.e. (Don't Fear) The Reaper or Bohemian Rhapsody. Yes, very
different songs, just giving examples. I don't expect people to
memorize lines, I expect people to recognize the melody or
something, though lol. I'm somewhat entertained when a 50 year old
guy will hear me sing something fairly unknown these days like "16
Tons" (YouTube it, good song) and be like "Someone as young as you
knows that song?!" :P
It's also cool when I can reference lines from "They're Coming to
Take Me Away, Ha Ha!" and not be looked at like I'm truly nutty by
at least one person lol.
Food: steak, pizza rolls, ravioli, ice cream (I tend to want it
more in the winter than in the summer... is that wierd?), and
especially sushi and sashimi. LOVE that stuff.
Not completely on the same topic, but also love checking out videos
at ThatGuyWithTheGlasses.com. Awesome stuff there, take a look
around at some point, thank me later.
The six things I could never do without
Food, water, air, anime, internet, and friends. Not necessarily in
that order. Money has to come in after those, because, well, let's
admit it, a certain level is needed in this world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Hypnotism, basic psychology, "why," "why" of that first why, "why"
of that second why... you get the picture. One of the biggest why's
are things like "Why would someone even do [insert inane, but real,
story here]?!"
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out at a bar for a couple drinks, home watching TV, playing
some videogames, or chatting away with a good friend or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
When laundry day is coming up, I'll wear *some* dirty clothes a
second day in a row (but never underpants... ugh)
You should message me if
If you're interested in being friends:
-You're
open
minded.
-You can laugh at a dirty joke without feeling offended because
"That degrades women everywhere" or something weird like
that.
-I babble sometimes, be able to (A) handle that and (B) go with it.
I'm sure there'll be times you'll want to babble as well. You let
me do mine, and you get your time, too.
-You realize that talking online is a written medium, and if you
can't display your thoughts in a remotely intelligent fashion that
people won't pay those thoughts any mind. Example of an extreme
that will be ignored immediately: "o u r sooooooooooo rite, dat is
tot my fav!"
Obviously, talking in person or on the phone would not be like
this, but to do that, we'll be talking in e-mail first, don't make
yourself look like a total idiot, but rather someone of average or
better intelligence, thank you.
Curious about relationship or the like:
-A friend first before the rest (note: look just before this)
-You should be at least mostly
independent. You understand how
unattractive a clingy person is, and silently promise never to be
one.
If I think of more that's really important to me, I'll mention it,
but really, if you're interesting to talk to, you're open minded,
and can present yourself as having average overall intelligence,
I'll likely wanna chat with ya. Curiosity is a good thing, by the
way.