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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29-59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:26pm
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Full figured
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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My deep deep belief is that we are all actors in this life & lately men have been describing me as Fellini-esque...there is chaos and free will, both. I was raised as a new-age baby, and I hopefully have questioned and examined all those beliefs, and consider myself an eclectic spiritualist...still searching, still learning.

For those of you to whom it matters, I am a BBW. There are men who adore my body, and men that don't. I am in proportion, for a 6 foot tall woman: big boobs, nice hips, long shapely legs. I used to model for plus-size clothes when I was younger. I was even on the cover of a magazine!

My life has centered around finding a way to marry my spiritual life and theatrical life. Women's circles have led to all sorts of workshops and training in astrology, healing, herb lore, mythology, ritual, ceremony...which led to native spirituality, shamanism, and indigenous teachings. Recently I have been involved in cannabis activism.
What I’m doing with my life
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Dreaming. Art. Writing.
I’m really good at
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I'm a good listener, thinker, organizer...but what I really am good at is the Mystery. I like to offer my healing hands, and to sing and dance in praise of the divine. I'm a good tarot reader, symbologist, storyteller, writer, speaker.....(Maybe I will come back to this at a later date...)
The first things people usually notice about me
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When I meet women, they usually tell me I look like a goddess. I am a big viking dutch girl: I am just shy of 6 feet tall, with broad shoulders, a pretty face, big bosom, long legs. I think I intimidate a lot of men at first...I think I define a BBW: Big, Beautiful, Woman!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Aside from Shakespeare, (I am an actress and have spent a lot of time with old Will), I think I return to the works of Tom Robbins mostly (Jitterbug Perfume may be my favorite...)--but I read whatever feels right at the time, fiction, non-fiction, blogs, articles, poetry and other ancient texts.

I love all types of performance and media. The internet can suck me in as well, with so much variety and ability to travel without spending jet fuel! But I love live theatre too.

I'm a big fan of HBO and Showtime series. I spend evenings with Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert, watch Gordon Ramsey and other BBC shows and series, PBS, NatGEO....

In terms of films, I love so many. Nowadays, I will only spend hard cash on going out to a movie theatre if the film is a visual event (like Prometheus or Cave of Forgotten Dreams).

And food? I'm adventurous, but think it wise to stay away from raw fish, meat and eggs.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. the complete works of Shakespeare
2. quiet time in nature for reverie
3. an animal companion with fur, preferably
4. an extensive music collection (cause I just don't know how to get around not having music in my life--it keeps me sane!)
5. cannabis (I believe its is a helpful tonic, not toxic at all)
6. (...hmmm...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether or not the ancient Mayans knew something we don't know about Time....

how to pass cannabis legalization

a man who will spark me up, creatively, sexually, intellectually
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
debating whether I am an extrovert or introvert. Shall I stay in or go out?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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perhaps this question isn't really for public consumption....
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there's something intriguing here, that you would like to know more about....if something sounds like it tickles your fancy, or your ear, or other places....