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30 M Chicago, IL

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  • Ages 23–37
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  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

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My self-summary
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I'm from small town Kansas, but I spent a year and a half in big city London. I wouldn't say I have a big city personality (so I don't know why folks tend to take me for a New Yorker): I'm usually pretty un-flashy. But I'm also kind of drawn to big cities, and I'm happiest when I'm living in one.

I'm kind of a throwback: I don't twitter, rarely Facebook, seldom tumbl. It's not that I disapprove of social fact I envy proficient twitterers, prolific face bookers, etc. It's just not part of my DNA; I'm too private. Online dating profiles are probably as close as I'll ever get to starting my own blog.

Friends say I'm odd-ball (in a fun way!), and I do have quirks: I've worn the same kind of shoes since high school; I plow through crossword puzzles; I enthuse (nothing odd there I guess). But they also say I'm a pretty nice, good guy, and not to pile on with the self-compliments but that's probably true. Also, three's my lucky number, so it's probably a good time to wrap this thing up.

BTW, I moved to Chicago from elsewhere. that in mind? Does my status as a "transplant" make me more dateable? I'm an exotic flower so message me already.
What I’m doing with my life
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I wish I could say I was "living in the moment" but that's not really my strong suit. This is my strong suit. I worked as an editor/researcher post-college, but after a while, the material I was studying stopped being interesting. Now I'm in the middle of a quarter-life career change. Ask me about it! I recently moved to Chicago from Minneapolis to start grad school. The long and winding road, etc etc.
I’m really good at
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karaoke, mooniness, news trivia, worrying, halloween
The first things people usually notice about me
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My ruthless, take-no-prisoners approach to international diplomacy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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"King of the Hill" is an unfairly overlooked cartoon.

People think "Being John Malcovitch" is gratuitously absurd but it's totally not.

No one reads "Little, Big" because it's out of print.

Pizza pie?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1)a quiet place to live and
2)read my books;
3)knowledge of spring and
4)the possibility of walks;
5)my lucky chair,
6)my fancy, pin-striped pants
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the filibuster
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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grandpa and grandma love me very much.
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