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32 M San Francisco, CA

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
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Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
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Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Croatian (Fluently), Serbian (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I used to work at a vocational boarding school for delinquent teens. I finished school with a degree in Political Economy, which I've discovered is next to useless in the working world. Apparently employers see political economy, and think "Marxist." So I went back to school for tech stuff, and now work downtown for a company you've probably heard of.

Oh yeah...I guess I should mention I wasn't born in the states. I was born in then-Yugoslavia and came to the states when I was five. My fobbie parents insisted that I speak our native tongue at home, so to this day I haven't been properly acculturated.
What I’m doing with my life
I taught at-risk youth for a few years at boarding school for the troubled. Now I work for a growing company you've probably heard of downtown. I have a few sides projects I'm developing too. I also find myself doing a lot of yoga lately (urban flow).
I’m really good at
Talking my way out of predicaments.
The first things people usually notice about me
maybe you should ask them. If pressed, I'm guessing they might say the flower bearers who follow me everywhere and sprinkle rose petals in my path. or maybe the castrati who precede me with song wherever I go.

this question is terrible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: So many to list here....reading's probably my favorite much so that sometimes i think i chose the wrong career. I was the immigrant kid who had no friends and learned about america through Bukowski and Fante and Dos Passos. Also love the works of Rebecca West--amazing mind.

I love almost all 19th century Literature from Russia, particularly Tolstoy, Dostoevsky, Lermontov, Chekov and Gogol. French authors like Camus, Celine, Rimbaud and Baudelaire, English Lit like D.H. Lawrence, Dickens, Joyce etc.

Recent: The Tipping Point, Crash (J.G. Ballard), Me Talk Pretty One Day, Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, Confessions of an Economic Hitman, White Noise

I used to read a lot of philosophy, esp. Nietzsche, Horkheimer, Adorno, Marx, Foucault, and a bunch of others I cant remember right now.

Magazines: (Right now I'm addicted to magazines) The Economist, The New Yorker, The New York Review of Books, Wired, BlackBook, Harper's, Tokien, Planet, Planning, XLR8TR, Giant Robot


Classic: Cassavetes, Bergman, Kurosawa, Paossalini, Fellini, Antonioni, Herzog, Jarmusch

Recent Favorites: Paradise Now, Supertroopers, Zoolander, Come and See, Lepa Sela Lepo Gore, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Grizzly Man, Little Dieter Needs to Fly, Donnie Darko.

Sometimes I like to get a big popcorn and soda and buy a ticket for some summer blockbuster.

Childhood faves: National Lampoons Vacation and European Vacation, Honey I Shrunk the Kids, Last of the Mohicans, Over the Top, Bladerunner.

TV: Sopranos, Six Feet Under, Entourage, Family Guy, Reno911, the Simpsons, FireFly, BSG, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, The Wire, Weeds, The Office, Arrested Development, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Beverly Hills 90210, My So-Called Life, Party of Five.

Music: Classic Rock then Grunge then Punk Rock then Reggae then Indie Rock then Indie Pop and now everything, but particularly hip hop and electronica.

Right Now: Kraftwerk, Joy Division, Le Tigre, Two Gallants, Interpol, Husker Du, Eric Satie, Pinback, Aesop Rock, Atmosphere, Dr. Octogon, Deltron, Sisters of Mercy, Architecture in Helsinki, Tom Waits, Legowelt, Gary Numan, Vitalic, Bonnie Prince Billy
The six things I could never do without
the ten minutes of reading the news on my iphone in the morning where I hold it super close to my face because I haven't put my contacts on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how i can help my sister get her first job (she has an ms in library science). she's having trouble networking, so i've been trying to network for her, which basically means chatting up librarians and inquiring about openings. also traveling. I love a good trip to somewhere I've never been before. I prefer places where I am the only tourist. Favorite cities: berlin, naples, st. petersburg, new york, rio de janeiro, new orleans, cairo, odessa, los angeles. Future places to visit: iran, ethiopia, armenia, japan, burma.
On a typical Friday night I am
I like to go out with a few friends, usually for a meal and then a bar for some drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've gotten really good at positioning my roommate's toothpaste just so on the sink, so he never knows I use it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You're wondering whether or not to message me.

You watch the film "Mallrats" once a month.

Sort of kidding. Mostly I'm looking for people who are smart and aware and are interested in the world and other people. This can manifest in many ways, from genuinely caring about someone's perspectives and experiences, to being well read and travelled and eager to learn more.

Also, I would say not taking yourself too seriously...though I'm never really sure what other people mean when they say that. For me it's sort of like getting over yourself, being patient and generous with others and understanding that they often don't mean to cause offense.

Any one of the following would also be awesome:

1. You enjoy food and aren't a very picky eater. I eat out a lot and really love trying to new foods. You don't have to be a foodie, (though I definitely have been called that many times), but you should at least be open to the idea of new foods. Also--I have an idea for a new food review website for the mission; looking for a food lover to help me get it off the ground.

2. You enjoy reading.

3. You like watching the wire, breaking bad, etc. basically you appreciate the golden age of tv!