My reason for beeing at okc is, well, like everyone else, meet and chat with new people. I don't mind meeting up irl with people i met online, but do think it is much more nice to talk online for at least a few days before going on a date with someone.
I am polyamorous. I don't believe i or anyone else should have the right to decide who someone else falls in love with, or chooses to be with. I think beeing together with someone you love, and beeing able to trust that person enough to let her love someone else at the same time and still believing she will keep on loving you just as much, that's the ultimate sign of trust and love.