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  • Ages 28-42
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5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Has kid(s) and might want more
My self-summary
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Back on here from a 4 month hiatus. Thought I'd give my ex one more chance but that was a waste of time.

I'm a 37 year old single mother of a wonderful 4 year old. He is the number one person in my life. If I'm not working then he's with me. Needless to say I don't really have much of a social life these days.

I should also mention that even though my son's father is not in his life, it doesn't mean I'm looking to find him a new Dad. Not the case at all. I'm just on here to find someone to date or hang with. That being said, I'm also not going to bring just anyone around my son.

I really love music. Before my son came along I used to go to countless shows every year. Now it's more like 4 a year.
The last shows I saw were Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds,Yeah Yeah Yeahs & King Khan, Modest Mouse and Rocket From the Crypt. If I ever get a chance to see Tom Waits live I can die happy.

I came to NY to work on my photography. I was on my way to building up my portfolio and then my son happened. It's
been on hold ever since. I will get the ball rolling again soon.
What I’m doing with my life
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Schlepping food and drinks to the public.
Building train sets and marble races.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing and building things with no help. I've put up shelves, a TV mount, built furniture. It may not sound like anything to a guy, but there are definitely some helpless girls out there. I'm not one of them. If I need something done i do it myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not sure. Maybe my eyes. Maybe the fact that I rarely ever wear makeup. Perhaps my long brown hair. You'll have to tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've seen hundreds of concerts: David Bowie, the Cramps, Beastie Boys, TV on the Radio, the Walkmen, Ween, Queens of the Stone Age, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Nick Cave, Radiohead, Spiritualized, Black Lips, King Khan & BBQ/Shrines, Wilco, Bob Dylan, Hot Snakes, Obits, Rftc, Night Marchers, James Brown, the Kills, Faith No More, Grizzly Bear, White Stripes, Brian Jonestown Massacre, Constantines, the Spits, Sloan, the Hives, BRMC... the list is endless. I have 24,000 songs on my iPod. 95% of it from CDs. I love music.

Books: I used to read mostly music biographies. My current fixation is literature. Authors I like are: Henry Miller, Kurt Vonnegut, JD Salinger, Charles Bukowski, Bret Easton Ellis, Cormack McCarthy, Jack Keroac, and Hunter S Thompson.

Movies: anything Cohen Brothers, Christopher Nolan, PT Anderson, Full Metal Jacket, Blues Brothers, Sid & Nancy, Repo Man, Princess & The Warrior, original Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Royal Tenenbaums, Boondocks Saints, Return of the Living Dead, Narc, Goodfellas, Casino, Departed, Pee-Wee's Big Adventure, City of God, Sid & Nancy, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind,

TV shows: Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Boardwalk Empire, Sons of Anarchy , House of Cards, Three Stooges, Sopranos, Arrested Development, It's Always Sunny in Philidelphia, Chappelle Show, Walking Dead
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Son
My Music
My Camera
Netflix / HBO Go
My Computer
Warm Weather
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I don't learn from my mistakes
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working or hanging with my son
You should message me if
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You have similar interests and having a toddler around doesn't cramp your style

Don't message me if your pics are faceless or headless. Not into talking to someone I have no idea what they look like.