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37 F New York, NY

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more

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My self-summary
I'm a 36 year old single mother of a wonderful 3 year old. He is the number one person in my life. If I'm not working then he's with me. Needless to say I don't really have much of a social life these days.

I should also mention that even though my son's father is not in his life, it doesn't mean I'm looking to find him a new Dad. Not the case at all. I'm just on here to find someone to date or hang with. That being said, I'm also not going to bring just anyone around my son. The last guy I was seeing bumped into me when I had my son with me and recoiled in horror when my son tried to hug him. Like I said, not trying replace his Dad but also don't want douchebags around him either.

I really love music. Before my son came along I used to go to countless shows every year. Now it's more like 4 a year.
The last 2 shows I saw were Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds,Yeah Yeah Yeahs & King Khan. I'm really stoked to see Rocket From the Crypt's reunion show this April. I really pick and choose the shows I want to see. If I ever get a chance to see Tom Waits live I can die happy.

I came to NY to work on my photography. I was on my way to building up my portfolio and then my son happened. It's
been on hold ever since. I will get the ball rolling again soon.
What I’m doing with my life
Schlepping food and drinks to the public.
Building train sets and marble races.
I’m really good at
Fixing and building things with no help. I've put up shelves, a TV mount, built furniture. It may not sound like anything to a guy, but there are definitely some helpless girls out there. I'm not one of them. If I need something done i do it myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not sure. Maybe my eyes. Maybe the fact that I rarely ever wear makeup. Perhaps my long brown hair. You'll have to tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've seen hundreds of concerts: David Bowie, the Cramps, Beastie Boys, TV on the Radio, the Walkmen, Ween, Queens of the Stone Age, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Nick Cave, Radiohead, Spiritualized, Black Lips, King Khan & BBQ/Shrines, Wilco, Bob Dylan, Hot Snakes, Obits, Rftc, Night Marchers, James Brown, the Kills, Faith No More, Grizzly Bear, White Stripes, Brian Jonestown Massacre, Constantines, the Spits, Sloan, the Hives, BRMC... the list is endless. I have 24,000 songs on my iPod. 95% of it from CDs. I love music. I just scored a ticket to Rocket From the Crypt in April.

Books: I used to read mostly music biographies. My current fixation is literature. Last books I read were Tropic of Cancer by Henry Miller, Cat's Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut, Catcher in the Rye by JD Salinger and currently reading Most Beautiful Woman in Town by Charles Bukowski. Other authors I like are Bret Easton Ellis, Cormack McCarthy, Jack Keroac and Hunter S Thompson.

Movies: anything Cohen Brothers, Christopher Nolan, PT Anderson, Full Metal Jacket, Blues Brothers, Sid & Nancy, Repo Man, Princess & The Warrior, original Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Royal Tenenbaums, Boondocks Saints, Return of the Living Dead, Narc, Goodfellas, Casino, Departed, Pee-Wee's Big Adventure, City of God, Sid & Nancy, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind,

TV shows: Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Boardwalk Empire, Sons of Anarchy , House of Cards, Three Stooges, Sopranos, Arrested Development, It's Always Sunny in Philidelphia, Chappelle Show, Walking Dead

I can't stand reality TV. I don't care about the glorified karaoke contests or the b-list celebrities dancing. If there's no story line, I'm not interested.
The six things I could never do without
My Son
My Music
My Camera
Netflix / HBO Go
My Computer
Warm Weather
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If Nickleback has sold millions of albums then why don't I know anyone that owns one.

Why common sense isn't so common.

What the next wave of hipsters will look like and be called.

Why did they kill my favorite character on Boardwalk Empire.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working or hanging with my son
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have similar interests and having a toddler around doesn't cramp your style

Don't message me if your pics are faceless or headless. Why would I want to talk to a torso?